"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Psycho *****

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This girl asked me to the homecoming dance, I went. After the dance I opted not to pursue things with her and told her so. Then she finds my website and starts commenting under a different name, harassing me to no end. After about a month I got so fed up of her insults I burned Tech N9ne's "Psycho *****" on a disk and gave it to her. She cryed for the entire last half of the school day. I later found out that she was planning on asking me to formal even though we haven't spoken in person since after the homecoming dance...

I realize that what I did does not show any qualities of a Don Juan but I couldn't resist. I know I'm going to regret this. But what are you guy's expirences with hooking up with a chick and then they go totally psycho on you.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RaMar

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wow Magnum, you've been registered since May but my post compelled you to come out of your shell and make your first post. Congratulations on your first big P.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I find what she did to be weak. I do not believe she has the qualities of a girl you should pursue but maybe you do not have the qualities to be pursued by better ladies.
 
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You completely missed her attempts at flirting with you. She obviously sucks at it but what you did was unwarranted as well.

Just learn from the situation.
 
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Umm..I don't know about you guys, but being psychotic isn't exactly a turn on. I wouldn't pursue anything with her. Doesn't matter how hot she is or how interested you might think you are in her, that's one of those things you just don't mess with.


I have a friend that went out with this chick for about a year..broke up with her cuz she went totally psycho on him. Well, it's been about a year since they broke up, he ends up somehow having sex with her again, and he kinda just ignored her from then on. She of course went psycho again because of the attention and almost killed herself.

So, again, just don't give these chicks any attention...I wouldn't
 
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