"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

psycho girl?

T

tony-montana

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2007
Messages
363
Reaction score
1
so i been talking to this girl for a while... we met at a party and she's nice and all... and we also chat online in this chat room since we both use it... she seems to get angry when i joke (that's just who i am) - like last night this girl in the room was asking for any other girls to talk with and i jokingly said "yeah, message <psychogirl>" then she just rips out with a "STFU, GET A FUKING LIFE YOU LOSER. GET FUKED!" and we didnt talk the rest of the night. then just before she comes online, immediatly messages me saying "boo" ... wtf ?

do i pretend nothing happened like she is and just keep talking or face her and tell her that she's a psycho and i will not talk to her anymore? by the way she is starting to play hard to get and i don't like it.

example:

her: i hate working till 6am.. they make me do over time
me: i'll beat them up
her: please do
me: okay but then we go on another date this week, deal?
her: hahaha, no.. no deal
me: okay then do your 6am shifts.
her: ok

and then its just silence. is she just fukin' around with me i dont have time for this sh!t.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

R

reset

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2007
Messages
2,200
Reaction score
59
If she's really a psycho, you calling her one isn't going to turn out so well, trust me.

Best to just ignore her for awhile.
 
S

stylemaker

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 31, 2007
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
I could be totally wrong but sounds like she's really emotional and may not know how to healthily deal with her emotions. She could be acting this way because someone could be doing it to her and its her way of learning how to react or feel better (dealing with it unhealthily). I wouldnt ask her out (giving her value) after she hasn't deserved it esp. when she acts crazy. Don't let her piss you off. Respect yourself so she will respect you/herself.
 
penkitten

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,255
Reaction score
235
Age
49
Location
at our house
you will never have the time nor desire to figure out all her little games. she's one of those.....beware.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

S

Someone Much cooler

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 8, 2007
Messages
450
Reaction score
6
Location
East Coast
If she screamed @ me like that I would have laughed and been like "STFU?, The Fvck you talkin 2 like that, don't get beside yourself acting tough and forget that I know what you really are, snuggles soft." Then I would have swatted her on the a$$ and walked away. I wouldn't have taken her seriously. I say ignore her for a while.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top