"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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psycho girl?

tony-montana

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so i been talking to this girl for a while... we met at a party and she's nice and all... and we also chat online in this chat room since we both use it... she seems to get angry when i joke (that's just who i am) - like last night this girl in the room was asking for any other girls to talk with and i jokingly said "yeah, message <psychogirl>" then she just rips out with a "STFU, GET A FUKING LIFE YOU LOSER. GET FUKED!" and we didnt talk the rest of the night. then just before she comes online, immediatly messages me saying "boo" ... wtf ?

do i pretend nothing happened like she is and just keep talking or face her and tell her that she's a psycho and i will not talk to her anymore? by the way she is starting to play hard to get and i don't like it.

example:

her: i hate working till 6am.. they make me do over time
me: i'll beat them up
her: please do
me: okay but then we go on another date this week, deal?
her: hahaha, no.. no deal
me: okay then do your 6am shifts.
her: ok

and then its just silence. is she just fukin' around with me i dont have time for this sh!t.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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reset

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If she's really a psycho, you calling her one isn't going to turn out so well, trust me.

Best to just ignore her for awhile.
 

stylemaker

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I could be totally wrong but sounds like she's really emotional and may not know how to healthily deal with her emotions. She could be acting this way because someone could be doing it to her and its her way of learning how to react or feel better (dealing with it unhealthily). I wouldnt ask her out (giving her value) after she hasn't deserved it esp. when she acts crazy. Don't let her piss you off. Respect yourself so she will respect you/herself.
 

penkitten

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you will never have the time nor desire to figure out all her little games. she's one of those.....beware.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Someone Much cooler

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If she screamed @ me like that I would have laughed and been like "STFU?, The Fvck you talkin 2 like that, don't get beside yourself acting tough and forget that I know what you really are, snuggles soft." Then I would have swatted her on the a$$ and walked away. I wouldn't have taken her seriously. I say ignore her for a while.
 
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