"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SmooveMooves

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The point of this website is to improve men's lives in all facets. Sosuave is one of a kind, there is nothing like it. It singlehandedly changed my life as I can say with confidence I would not be where I am today. I want what happened to me to continue happening to more men. That's while I'll always be active here. We're a group of like-minded individuals with the same goals. We're a support group one can turn to. Hell, we're a group of friends you can come and brag to. The point of this thread is that there is NO NEED TO LIE.

You don't get any extra points from the members here and it won't benefit YOU. You won't be honestly pushing toward improvement. Don't be a keyboard jockey. It serves no one. Keep it real to make sure you're progressing. Don't pretend you're in some sort of fantasyland swimming in women if you're not because the only person that hurts is YOURSELF.

Also for you dummies, I keep telling you to stop posting 'real' images here. If they're REAL, it's a 2 second process of reverse image searching to find out who they're linked to and if they're FAKE the 2 second process will reveal that as well.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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In truth your life is only going to improve if you spend minimal time on forums in general and spend a lot of time actually taking action. I remember starting out when I was big on getting validation from other members and making up a lot of hypothetical scenarios in my head, wasted a good bit of my youth doing that but eventually got off. When you're younger and doing this, you're really wasting a lot of time that can be spent bettering your life and learning life changing skills. My regret is not starting sooner, I think all newer guys should take the time to read the posts and then respond to ones they think they have knowledge on.
 

SmooveMooves

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In truth your life is only going to improve if you spend minimal time on forums in general and spend a lot of time actually taking action. I remember starting out when I was big on getting validation from other members and making up a lot of hypothetical scenarios in my head, wasted a good bit of my youth doing that but eventually got off. When you're younger and doing this, you're really wasting a lot of time that can be spent bettering your life and learning life changing skills. My regret is not starting sooner, I think all newer guys should take the time to read the posts and then respond to ones they think they have knowledge on.
I'd rather be surfing sosuave then constantly refreshing my Facebook and Twitter feeds. Which is actually why I've been more active here, I deleted my Facebook & Twitter (not having these is hard as hell man). I don't think there is anything wrong with being frequent here as long as your actually practicing what you preach. This forum is so we can become better men. Lying to yourself and others won't accomplish that.
 

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Also for you dummies, I keep telling you to stop posting 'real' images here. If they're REAL, it's a 2 second process of reverse image searching to find out who they're linked to and if they're FAKE the 2 second process will reveal that as well.
Huh that's crazy I didn't know you could do this. I just tried it out on a "real" avatar image that I've used. One site came back with zero results, the other one found the image but never linked it to my identity on the web.
 

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Huh that's crazy I didn't know you could do this. I just tried it out on a "real" avatar image that I've used. One site came back with zero results, the other one found the image but never linked it to my identity on the web.
There has to be a digital footprint of the photo ---say your personal social media, like Facebook or Twitter or something.

If you use Google's reverse image search it will find something guranteed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I couldn't agree more with your post.

Good job exposing a very recent case of posting fake photos and stories. I'm sure the member who did it knows who he is.
 

Sho-No-Luv

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Quite simple process. Hold image for a few seconds, choose search Google for this image and wholia!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'd rather be surfing sosuave then constantly refreshing my Facebook and Twitter feeds. Which is actually why I've been more active here, I deleted my Facebook & Twitter (not having these is hard as hell man). I don't think there is anything wrong with being frequent here as long as your actually practicing what you preach. This forum is so we can become better men. Lying to yourself and others won't accomplish that.
Twitter and Facebook, what are those???
 

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There has to be a digital footprint of the photo ---say your personal social media, like Facebook or Twitter or something.

If you use Google's reverse image search it will find something guranteed.

Yeah I did this, the pic is in my FB profile. Google's reverse image search DID NOT work.
Guaranteed
 

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Yeah I did this, the pic is in my FB profile. Google's reverse image search DID NOT work.
Guaranteed
I said there had to be a digital footprint of the image. Obviously if you never used the image anywhere else, ie. Social media pages, it won't work.

EDIT: Facebook has privacy settings that allow you disable your profile from being searched, I'm guessing yours must be activated. As we're mine when I had a FB page. We were in the minority. Alot of people share images between their social media without ever looking into the privacy settings.
 

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Hell nah, I'm updating my picture to include my face. Here's a picture of me in the dark:

2560x1440-black-solid-color-background.jpg

Go reverse lookup that sh!t right now. I dare you and wish you luck in your endeavor.
 

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I got rid of my pictures because of a little trouble I got in. If the people I'm in trouble with found my posts here, well, let's just say it would look bad on me.

You can tell when guys are lying. Their stories will be too grand where they are always the winner and never lose. Everyone has ups and downs in life, it's part of the adventure
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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