"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Prude Girl - need all/any tips!

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This girl I've been talking to is great with the banter she just gets the interaction and there's always sexual tension but..

Problem is she claims to be a prude and every one of her friends that I also know have warned me of this and to steer away (I'm very sexual)

I'm now very curious on if I can be the first to change her perception if its even possible with these type of girls, never came across one.

So your thoughts/tips would be much appreciated on this subject. Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Treat her like any other girl. A girl who is a certain way doesn't have to "claim" to be that way if she really were that way.
 

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Treat her like any other girl. A girl who is a certain way doesn't have to "claim" to be that way if she really were that way.
i do and she replies with "ew stop" or "thats weird" and these are just ordinary sex jokes/sayings referring to us or sex in general.

i need to know how to break that seal and make any type of sexual innuendos fun like they should be and spark curiousity.
 

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If she's a self proclaimed prude, she'll display herself to you as that. Why make "sexual innuendos" to a girl who's like that in the first place? You'll only come across as a wannbe James Bond. For girls like that, I'd use humor and wit instead. Bringing up sex to a chick that wants to be known as a "goody goody" is a no no. Leave the "sexual innuendos" for the slutty ones.
 

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Don't get me wrong, I love them too but to be good with any and every type of female, ya gotta be versitile. When you've already slept with the chick, you can almost say WTF you want.

Don't bring a baseball to a bowling match.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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