"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Prude Girl - need all/any tips!

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This girl I've been talking to is great with the banter she just gets the interaction and there's always sexual tension but..

Problem is she claims to be a prude and every one of her friends that I also know have warned me of this and to steer away (I'm very sexual)

I'm now very curious on if I can be the first to change her perception if its even possible with these type of girls, never came across one.

So your thoughts/tips would be much appreciated on this subject. Thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Treat her like any other girl. A girl who is a certain way doesn't have to "claim" to be that way if she really were that way.
 

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Treat her like any other girl. A girl who is a certain way doesn't have to "claim" to be that way if she really were that way.
i do and she replies with "ew stop" or "thats weird" and these are just ordinary sex jokes/sayings referring to us or sex in general.

i need to know how to break that seal and make any type of sexual innuendos fun like they should be and spark curiousity.
 

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If she's a self proclaimed prude, she'll display herself to you as that. Why make "sexual innuendos" to a girl who's like that in the first place? You'll only come across as a wannbe James Bond. For girls like that, I'd use humor and wit instead. Bringing up sex to a chick that wants to be known as a "goody goody" is a no no. Leave the "sexual innuendos" for the slutty ones.
 

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Don't get me wrong, I love them too but to be good with any and every type of female, ya gotta be versitile. When you've already slept with the chick, you can almost say WTF you want.

Don't bring a baseball to a bowling match.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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