"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Prude Girl - need all/any tips!

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This girl I've been talking to is great with the banter she just gets the interaction and there's always sexual tension but..

Problem is she claims to be a prude and every one of her friends that I also know have warned me of this and to steer away (I'm very sexual)

I'm now very curious on if I can be the first to change her perception if its even possible with these type of girls, never came across one.

So your thoughts/tips would be much appreciated on this subject. Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Treat her like any other girl. A girl who is a certain way doesn't have to "claim" to be that way if she really were that way.
 

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Treat her like any other girl. A girl who is a certain way doesn't have to "claim" to be that way if she really were that way.
i do and she replies with "ew stop" or "thats weird" and these are just ordinary sex jokes/sayings referring to us or sex in general.

i need to know how to break that seal and make any type of sexual innuendos fun like they should be and spark curiousity.
 

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If she's a self proclaimed prude, she'll display herself to you as that. Why make "sexual innuendos" to a girl who's like that in the first place? You'll only come across as a wannbe James Bond. For girls like that, I'd use humor and wit instead. Bringing up sex to a chick that wants to be known as a "goody goody" is a no no. Leave the "sexual innuendos" for the slutty ones.
 

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Don't get me wrong, I love them too but to be good with any and every type of female, ya gotta be versitile. When you've already slept with the chick, you can almost say WTF you want.

Don't bring a baseball to a bowling match.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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