"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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prozac girls?

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just wanted your opinion...

im dating this girl on prozac..she likes to argue alot....she also invited me over the other day to watch movies...i was busy, she got upset & invited over her ex....he is having a kid with some other girl right now, but its still kinda eh...

she's also one of those girls who doesnt get along with other girls...just guys and lesbians...

am i being paranoid or do i see red flags going up everywhere?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by jb82
am i being paranoid or do i see red flags going up everywhere?
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This girl is probably the most f**ked up you will ever meet.

Never EVER talk to her again. Ever. Ever. At all. She is trouble.
 
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Yes - she is the classic case psycho. Continue on with her at your own demise.
 
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Ok she invited her ex over chances are she fu*ked him and your asking us about red flags? She’s a psycho your a dumb cu*t id say you are well suited for each other.

Ninja out
 
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If she's hot, have her as a friend, maybe just keep her in check. Otherwise, run for the hills away from this psycho broad.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bail on this nut case now!!! These girls are trouble bro!! They will ssux the life right outta you and do the most fuvked up shiat in the process.

This girl has red flags flying all over the map, NEXT!!



PIMP
 
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I've had 2 LTR's with women that used "American psycho candy" (anti-depressants and anti-psychotics). I've learned to never get committed with these chicks because nothing positive can ever come from it. It's too much work to even keep them as FB's because they can create intense drama from nothing. ONS is the most they'll get from me.

BTW, unless you're in an exclusive relationship, there's nothing wrong with her inviting her ex over for a booty call.
 
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she sounds borderline personality disorder to me, stay away before its too late like me
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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haha! Good post! Havn't laughed like this in a while! :crackup:
 
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