"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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prozac girls?

jb82

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just wanted your opinion...

im dating this girl on prozac..she likes to argue alot....she also invited me over the other day to watch movies...i was busy, she got upset & invited over her ex....he is having a kid with some other girl right now, but its still kinda eh...

she's also one of those girls who doesnt get along with other girls...just guys and lesbians...

am i being paranoid or do i see red flags going up everywhere?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by jb82
am i being paranoid or do i see red flags going up everywhere?
This girl is probably the most f**ked up you will ever meet.

Never EVER talk to her again. Ever. Ever. At all. She is trouble.
 

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Yes - she is the classic case psycho. Continue on with her at your own demise.
 

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Ok she invited her ex over chances are she fu*ked him and your asking us about red flags? She’s a psycho your a dumb cu*t id say you are well suited for each other.

Ninja out
 

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If she's hot, have her as a friend, maybe just keep her in check. Otherwise, run for the hills away from this psycho broad.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bail on this nut case now!!! These girls are trouble bro!! They will ssux the life right outta you and do the most fuvked up shiat in the process.

This girl has red flags flying all over the map, NEXT!!



PIMP
 

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I've had 2 LTR's with women that used "American psycho candy" (anti-depressants and anti-psychotics). I've learned to never get committed with these chicks because nothing positive can ever come from it. It's too much work to even keep them as FB's because they can create intense drama from nothing. ONS is the most they'll get from me.

BTW, unless you're in an exclusive relationship, there's nothing wrong with her inviting her ex over for a booty call.
 

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she sounds borderline personality disorder to me, stay away before its too late like me
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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haha! Good post! Havn't laughed like this in a while! :crackup:
 
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