"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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prowling on the streets

shigi

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what's up?
want to ask you some questions.

first of all, is it awkward asking a girl for a phone number on the street?

secondly, i'm a person who doesnt have guts and I have a feeling a person without guts will always won't have guts to go up to a girl and ask for a phone number. I believe this type of personality is set with me (i'm already 25, i dont think my personality can change). is this true? or can it improve by forcing myself to do it? if yes, i'm willing to go out this saturday, alone, talking to random girls.

third, any tips on prowling on the streets?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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L.A. Tripp

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shigi said:
(i'm already 25, i dont think my personality can change). is this true? or can it improve by forcing myself to do it? if yes, i'm willing to go out this saturday, alone, talking to random girls.
LOL. Yes. You're ONLY 25. You can definitely still change. But it's not your personality you are changing, you have the wrong idea about what is going on. Your personality is WHO you are, so that shouldn't change. It's your confidence that has to change.

LMAO@Jack, very true . . .
 

shigi

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LOL

am i the only person who uses the term prowl? or hunting?
 
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