"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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prowling on the streets

shigi

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what's up?
want to ask you some questions.

first of all, is it awkward asking a girl for a phone number on the street?

secondly, i'm a person who doesnt have guts and I have a feeling a person without guts will always won't have guts to go up to a girl and ask for a phone number. I believe this type of personality is set with me (i'm already 25, i dont think my personality can change). is this true? or can it improve by forcing myself to do it? if yes, i'm willing to go out this saturday, alone, talking to random girls.

third, any tips on prowling on the streets?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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L.A. Tripp

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shigi said:
(i'm already 25, i dont think my personality can change). is this true? or can it improve by forcing myself to do it? if yes, i'm willing to go out this saturday, alone, talking to random girls.
LOL. Yes. You're ONLY 25. You can definitely still change. But it's not your personality you are changing, you have the wrong idea about what is going on. Your personality is WHO you are, so that shouldn't change. It's your confidence that has to change.

LMAO@Jack, very true . . .
 

shigi

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LOL

am i the only person who uses the term prowl? or hunting?
 
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