"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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prowling on the streets

shigi

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what's up?
want to ask you some questions.

first of all, is it awkward asking a girl for a phone number on the street?

secondly, i'm a person who doesnt have guts and I have a feeling a person without guts will always won't have guts to go up to a girl and ask for a phone number. I believe this type of personality is set with me (i'm already 25, i dont think my personality can change). is this true? or can it improve by forcing myself to do it? if yes, i'm willing to go out this saturday, alone, talking to random girls.

third, any tips on prowling on the streets?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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L.A. Tripp

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shigi said:
(i'm already 25, i dont think my personality can change). is this true? or can it improve by forcing myself to do it? if yes, i'm willing to go out this saturday, alone, talking to random girls.
LOL. Yes. You're ONLY 25. You can definitely still change. But it's not your personality you are changing, you have the wrong idea about what is going on. Your personality is WHO you are, so that shouldn't change. It's your confidence that has to change.

LMAO@Jack, very true . . .
 

shigi

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LOL

am i the only person who uses the term prowl? or hunting?
 
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