"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Provocative Openers

Lil Magic

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Well idunno how many of u guys think this is to useful, but ill give it a shot anyway. I went to a party last Friday, and my friend(it was her birthday) had a lot of hot friends there who i hadnt met before. So anyway, as the party is dying down, this hot chick walks in with her mom. I'm on the front of the stage dancing but somehow i take of my shades and stare directly at her and get a bit of eyecontact going.
After the party im sitting with my friend and the birthday girl takes off her tiara puts it on me and says i look sexy with it (yeah, wtf), even though my guy friends say i look gay. But, it gives me an idea. I up to two of the hot chicks and look directly at the one had already given eye contact. I asked them if i looked sexy (a littly funny / ****y). To my surprise the two of them say yes. Voila, instant opener. Now the two of them are coming to my Christmas party after talking to them for like 15 min.
Long and short: chose something unexpected to ask them about. U just may get a favorable answer.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jaaku

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and this was after how many beverages? :p

Good job on staying original. I guess you could say that's unintentionally peacocking. You made it work. nice one. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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