"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Provocative Openers

Lil Magic

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Well idunno how many of u guys think this is to useful, but ill give it a shot anyway. I went to a party last Friday, and my friend(it was her birthday) had a lot of hot friends there who i hadnt met before. So anyway, as the party is dying down, this hot chick walks in with her mom. I'm on the front of the stage dancing but somehow i take of my shades and stare directly at her and get a bit of eyecontact going.
After the party im sitting with my friend and the birthday girl takes off her tiara puts it on me and says i look sexy with it (yeah, wtf), even though my guy friends say i look gay. But, it gives me an idea. I up to two of the hot chicks and look directly at the one had already given eye contact. I asked them if i looked sexy (a littly funny / ****y). To my surprise the two of them say yes. Voila, instant opener. Now the two of them are coming to my Christmas party after talking to them for like 15 min.
Long and short: chose something unexpected to ask them about. U just may get a favorable answer.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jaaku

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and this was after how many beverages? :p

Good job on staying original. I guess you could say that's unintentionally peacocking. You made it work. nice one. :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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