"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jardine

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When a woman dresses in flauntingly tight/revealing clothes do you find she tends to fall more into the AW/Tease category ? Especially when its to places like work and company events.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Any woman that's comfortable with her sexuality will tease you. It doesn't matter what she's wearing nor where she's at. Just play along and enjoy the show. Just be careful at work because there may be jealous people watching who would complain about your antics.
 

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But would you pursue her any differently than one who dresses less obviously. Is she usually saying thru her dress "give me attention" and enjoying it while not necessarily being open to more. Be it a date or a fling. Especially when she's extremely extroverted and flirtatious making her hard to read. To the best of my knowledge she's not screwing anyone at work.
 

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The way that she dresses has nothing to do with it if she isn't the type that wants that type of attention. I've worked with women who dressed that way just to tease men and others that did it for the women and then there were those who actually wanted to meet guys.

Here's a question, would you still be attracted to her if she changed the way that she dressed? It probably wouldn't matter if she was genuinely attractive. If that's the case, why waste time worrying about the what she is trying to convey with her attire.

Quit giving yourself an anxiety attack and talk to her. That's the best way to find out if she's into you. Do it before another DJ beats you to it.
 
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Women wear tight/revealing clothes for the purpose of REVEALING! They want you to lust for them sexually because they are hors and and are ready to partake in their hordoms!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Amen lover! You said it best. Babes want d*ck, no matter what they wear. Only some are brainwashed into thinking that girls who want and enjoy sex are dirty and will burn in hell, and there are those who embrace their sexuality and want you to make mad love to them. Go after the latter.

But don't judge whether they fall into AW category by the way they dress. There are trends, you know. Preps dress a certain way. Doesnt mean all preps want c0ck. It may be for acceptance, to fit into the crowd.
 
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Disconnect, I am coming from an American perspective - not alll women are hors but the first 'obvious' clue of their horishness is their dress!!! And yes (I disagree with you), dress is an important factor in judging their horishness - I am aware that many hor mothers are dressing their children like hors and the children themselves are not hors but will soon be because of their instruction and indoctrination by their parents!!!

Disconnect, "good" women don't follow "trends" which are usually set by homos and hors and europeans/whites through mass media - a woman makes her own decicision to show her uterus and tits!!! "Dress" is very important when judging a woman - do NOT discount this hor factor!! Dress like a hor means you are a hor (except children who are dressed by their hor mothers). Let me know if you need further guidance!!!!
 

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lover you say to 'dress like a hor means that you are a hor' But wouldnt you agree that a lot of women do this simply to be a **** teese? Theyr in it for the attention
 
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