"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When a woman dresses in flauntingly tight/revealing clothes do you find she tends to fall more into the AW/Tease category ? Especially when its to places like work and company events.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Any woman that's comfortable with her sexuality will tease you. It doesn't matter what she's wearing nor where she's at. Just play along and enjoy the show. Just be careful at work because there may be jealous people watching who would complain about your antics.
 

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But would you pursue her any differently than one who dresses less obviously. Is she usually saying thru her dress "give me attention" and enjoying it while not necessarily being open to more. Be it a date or a fling. Especially when she's extremely extroverted and flirtatious making her hard to read. To the best of my knowledge she's not screwing anyone at work.
 

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The way that she dresses has nothing to do with it if she isn't the type that wants that type of attention. I've worked with women who dressed that way just to tease men and others that did it for the women and then there were those who actually wanted to meet guys.

Here's a question, would you still be attracted to her if she changed the way that she dressed? It probably wouldn't matter if she was genuinely attractive. If that's the case, why waste time worrying about the what she is trying to convey with her attire.

Quit giving yourself an anxiety attack and talk to her. That's the best way to find out if she's into you. Do it before another DJ beats you to it.
 
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Women wear tight/revealing clothes for the purpose of REVEALING! They want you to lust for them sexually because they are hors and and are ready to partake in their hordoms!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Amen lover! You said it best. Babes want d*ck, no matter what they wear. Only some are brainwashed into thinking that girls who want and enjoy sex are dirty and will burn in hell, and there are those who embrace their sexuality and want you to make mad love to them. Go after the latter.

But don't judge whether they fall into AW category by the way they dress. There are trends, you know. Preps dress a certain way. Doesnt mean all preps want c0ck. It may be for acceptance, to fit into the crowd.
 
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Disconnect, I am coming from an American perspective - not alll women are hors but the first 'obvious' clue of their horishness is their dress!!! And yes (I disagree with you), dress is an important factor in judging their horishness - I am aware that many hor mothers are dressing their children like hors and the children themselves are not hors but will soon be because of their instruction and indoctrination by their parents!!!

Disconnect, "good" women don't follow "trends" which are usually set by homos and hors and europeans/whites through mass media - a woman makes her own decicision to show her uterus and tits!!! "Dress" is very important when judging a woman - do NOT discount this hor factor!! Dress like a hor means you are a hor (except children who are dressed by their hor mothers). Let me know if you need further guidance!!!!
 

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lover you say to 'dress like a hor means that you are a hor' But wouldnt you agree that a lot of women do this simply to be a **** teese? Theyr in it for the attention
 
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