provide some suggestion please

[oneboy21]

I need an advice on this situation from you guys

I was talking to this girl online and got her number, she told me she is spiritual and stuff, i used to call her once in a while, but she never called me on her own
when ever i call her she always answers the phone, if not she will call back soon.

she stopped by my house one day to talk to my brother about a job, i told her there are openings

later one day while talking she told me she will help me in getting some stuff, she did come up and picked me up from my house and we went there, while coming back she told me she likes this guy but not sure about things

what's this girl intention basically, i like her
how do i make her mine , is it possible
some times in feel that she is in a place to decide whom to choose for, please leave me suggestions, thanks in advance

 

[Alextheegreat]

I need an advice on this situation from you guys

I was talking to this girl online and got her number, she told me she is spiritual and stuff, i used to call her once in a while, but she never called me on her own
when ever i call her she always answers the phone, if not she will call back soon.

she stopped by my house one day to talk to my brother about a job, i told her there are openings

later one day while talking she told me she will help me in getting some stuff, she did come up and picked me up from my house and we went there, while coming back she told me she likes this guy but not sure about things

what's this girl intention basically, i like her
how do i make her mine , is it possible
some times in feel that she is in a place to decide whom to choose for, please leave me suggestions, thanks in advance

Lol get out of the friend zone man. If she talking to you about another guy she "likes" then your to damn nice. If you want to get with her, well didn't you tell her to go on a date when you first called? If you didn't but just had a talk well you failed.

To try to fix this will be hard, call her and ask if she is open either saturday, or monday. If she says Monday be ike alright Monday night at 6 we are going to the Manor. Ill pick you up at 5:30 if she declines well your to much as a friend...

 

[Iceberg]

Not to be a d***, but you've been here since 2006. This seems like the average kind of question that could be answered by reading the DJ Bible.

Nowhere in your post did you say that you were making any attempts at seducing her. You're helping her get a job. You're introducing her to your brother. She's talking to you about other guys. It sounds like you're her little brother.

You're not acting like a man, so why should she treat you like one? Are you taking her out on fun adventures? Are you acting like a confident DJ who knows how to handle a woman? Are you displaying any value at all?

Like I said, I don't know how you could be a member of the board since 2006 and not know how to find answers to this. There's no interesting angle to your situation. You're a typical guy who likes a girl and is making no SERIOUS effort to get the girl...Well, other than being totally available to her 100% of the time, which is absolutely boring her to death. Nothing new here...read the DJ Bible.

 

[oneboy21]

Correct

i think you guys are correct
Thanks for suggestions, let me know if you have any good ideas
how not to get into situation like this

 

[Lord Sidious]

You´ve the DJ Bible and tonnes of invaluable information here, man.
Sorry, dude, but Iceberg is right.

Wish you the best.

Take care!