mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
With the insanity in the world if the Christian churches could build and encourage Proverbs 31 wives it would be a great reason to wait to get married. https://avirtuouswoman.org/10-virtues-of-the-proverbs-31-woman/
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well without that women in church will be a church/world hybrid that will not help her man, will seek control and become corrupt.Agreed. But God has His people. The churches are not responsible for the individual and not everyone going to church is born again sold out to Jesus type of Christian. Its all between the individual and God not the individual and the church. The church is not a cult so you can never put such an expectation on a church to make people a certain way. That type of church can not exist without being a cult of some form.
Yes, one of the major problems with Western civilization in recent decades is that they are moving further and further away from Judeo-Christian values.Church is a community and it can encourage and put attention on certain values.
Which groups are controlling female values?Yes, one of the major problems with Western civilization in recent decades is that they are moving further and further away from Judeo-Christian values.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You saying that they are buulding a majority to be hoes?What, you don't want to marry a hoe?![]()
Of course, but it's up to the people to follow through with it on the other 6 days. I don't feel just exposure to a 1 hour or brief gathering per week, then the rest of the day, and rest of the week, all the worldly values seeping in through co-workers, friends, family, social media, etc...Well without that women in church will be a church/world hybrid that will not help her man, will seek control and become corrupt.
Church is a community and it can encourage and put attention on certain values.
"Proverbs 31" is a "good thing to say", it's some SHYT most talk. Because most of them are practicing politicial, popularity or feminist viewpoints that are quite the opposite. Still in this day and age, there must be a thimble full of women who think it's a good idea to enable and empower her man and not attempt to control him, and not let society or the systems have additional leverage on him?Of course, but it's up to the people to follow through with it on the other 6 days. I don't feel just exposure to a 1 hour or brief gathering per week, then the rest of the day, and rest of the week, all the worldly values seeping in through co-workers, friends, family, social media, etc...
Even inside a church you can see women texting away or going on a social media app, etc.... Even if there is a message like that, (i.e proverbs 31), it may be only made once in a blue moon and on Mother's Day, or if there is a pre-marriage class or something like that.
My experience to date with church is not that type of carry-over community like you are suggesting. In fact, I don't know any church that is even like that. You have an ideal of what a church is supposed to be, and maybe it was like that in the Early church, but its certainly not like that today.
You've basically rephrased what I posted before."Proverbs 31" is a "good thing to say", it's some SHYT most talk. Because most of them are practicing politicial, popularity or feminist viewpoints that are quite the opposite. Still in this day and age, there must be a thimble full of women who think it's a good idea to enable and empower her man and not attempt to control him, and not let society or the systems have additional leverage on him?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You saying that they are buulding a majority to be hoes?
Hoes quick to trash a man out.Feminism and social programming, makes it automagic.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
...and you are 63 years old too? Well, guess there is plenty of time to find a Provebs 31 women, assuming the Rapture or a major event doesn't happen before November, 2020, in which case, this discussion is an interesting diversion. Are Proverbs 31 women cool with divorcees, or they only deal with widows and never married men?Proverbs 31 women exist, though in small numbers. I've got one (fiance) who is this in the truest sense.
But guess what? You've got to be a spiritually sound man in order to even get on their radar screen. Obviously, most men (like most women) pay little heed to biblical principles and in fact call themselves "spiritual" (a made-up jumble of ideas they have heard from here and there).
The Christian faith, through scripture, normalizes men and women's minds and causes them to discern their true nature. There is no rebellion against that nature as is found in the secular world.
Mankind is very prone to making up a religion that makes him feel all warm and fuzzy, because he is repulsed by a God who judges him. This is the very basis of idolatry. It puts man on the throne, and blinds him to spiritual truth. "Proverbs 31" women have absolutely no interest in the average man.
These women are as normalized as women can get. Very little if any drama, nothing but support for her man, and submission to his leadership. How did I get one for myself? First of all, I made myself into a man who appears on their radar. Then I found a Proverbs 31 woman who was widowed. The good ones are scooped up and off the market early.
Yep...The church sold its soul, when they started preaching 'rules and regulation' based salvation. Christianity now, looks like just any other religion.It's hard to even find a person let alone a woman who is actually saved in the churches. If the teachers of these churches are women, others are men who are teaching you have to turn from sin to be saved, can lose salvation and the rest then what hope to the people in the churches have.
People have to turn to God for repentance. It's a change of mind about what Jesus did for you. Without this fundamental change of mind then you have no business trying to even marry a woman who is trying to act godly.
We assessed that most proverbs 31 women or self proclaimed proverbs 31 woman are talking shyt. They are the same self serving, selfish, control hungry and man hating as the rest of them. But yes a minority exists....and you are 63 years old too? Well, guess there is plenty of time to find a Provebs 31 women, assuming the Rapture or a major event doesn't happen before November, 2020, in which case, this discussion is an interesting diversion. Are Proverbs 31 women cool with divorcees, or they only deal with widows and never married men?
Very smart. What does the audience WANT to hear?Very hard to look good as a man who's truly a christian. Obama is loved by the world just like a Joel Osteen is loved by the world.
Start acting like John the Baptist and see what happens. Some people will tolerate your outbursts but would rather you not talk about God at all.
Talk about being happy and making money and everyone will love you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.