"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Proud DJ Moment.

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I've been talking to this girl a few nights.

She's very intelligent, very deep.

Everytime I use a charming witty line, she delivers another one right back, or calls me out on my "game".

She randomly tells me I don't know what i'm getting into, I neg her, then ask how so?

She spills for about three minutes, pouring to me about everything in an almost poetic way.


Saying things such as,

"I'm still not over my last bf, I lost my virginity to him, I get hurt by guys because I choose the wrong ones. Sexually i'm a freak but i've only been with one guy, but I get called a tease by many. I have an addiction to mysterious guys, I have times where im emotionally numb and mentally unstable I have high standards....." (she goes on for a bit).

Really powerful **** that honestly, turned me away a bit, but at this point she had control.

I replied,

I don't give a **** about your previous boyfriends, because honestly they aren't even on my plane of existance. I'm smart enough and charming enough to get any girl I want, but you're smarter than that. It's a challenge, it ****ing turns me on. Sexually? Don't even get me started. I know how you like it. Slow at first then animalistically rough. My previous relationships, I won't get into. I keep that to myself. The fact that I can play the battle of wits with you is exciting and you know it. I love a chase as much as you do.

I go on a bit.

That portion settles down a bit, we start talking normally.

She ends with this, which I enjoyed.

"Just to let you know, I don't think you're crazy or a player. I think you're a different kind of charmer. The one that makes wives cheat on their husbands. I think you're eves apple, though not evil, you drive girls to insanity."


She has alot of baggage that I don't think I want to deal with. However, that quote made my night.

Any recent proud DJ moments?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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D@mn you haven't talked to her that much and she is pulling out everything from ex-boyfriends to saying that you are the man that causes wives to cheat on husbands (which admittedly pretty cool to hear about yourself.) This girl is off of the reservation. Put simply she sounds F-ing nutz. You might find that when you go in for the F*ck close that she keeps pulling back on the guise that "she doesn't want to hurt you" or "she doesn't want to get hurt" etc. But, if you want give it an honest shot I wouldn't recommend taking it past F*ck buddy status though.
 

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I think you need to go hard on kino with this one.. just escalate and see how far she'll go. She's already given you the green light, she obviously approves of you.. could she be testing you to c if you have the backbone to actually make a physical move? I think so.. go for it before her IL plunges.. :yes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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**** buddy status is perfectly fine with this one, but don't even think about going any further. A relationship is out of the question, I feel. She has all that baggage and it'll only weigh you down, my friend.
 
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