"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Proud DJ Moment.

StoneColdFox

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I've been talking to this girl a few nights.

She's very intelligent, very deep.

Everytime I use a charming witty line, she delivers another one right back, or calls me out on my "game".

She randomly tells me I don't know what i'm getting into, I neg her, then ask how so?

She spills for about three minutes, pouring to me about everything in an almost poetic way.


Saying things such as,

"I'm still not over my last bf, I lost my virginity to him, I get hurt by guys because I choose the wrong ones. Sexually i'm a freak but i've only been with one guy, but I get called a tease by many. I have an addiction to mysterious guys, I have times where im emotionally numb and mentally unstable I have high standards....." (she goes on for a bit).

Really powerful **** that honestly, turned me away a bit, but at this point she had control.

I replied,

I don't give a **** about your previous boyfriends, because honestly they aren't even on my plane of existance. I'm smart enough and charming enough to get any girl I want, but you're smarter than that. It's a challenge, it ****ing turns me on. Sexually? Don't even get me started. I know how you like it. Slow at first then animalistically rough. My previous relationships, I won't get into. I keep that to myself. The fact that I can play the battle of wits with you is exciting and you know it. I love a chase as much as you do.

I go on a bit.

That portion settles down a bit, we start talking normally.

She ends with this, which I enjoyed.

"Just to let you know, I don't think you're crazy or a player. I think you're a different kind of charmer. The one that makes wives cheat on their husbands. I think you're eves apple, though not evil, you drive girls to insanity."


She has alot of baggage that I don't think I want to deal with. However, that quote made my night.

Any recent proud DJ moments?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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D@mn you haven't talked to her that much and she is pulling out everything from ex-boyfriends to saying that you are the man that causes wives to cheat on husbands (which admittedly pretty cool to hear about yourself.) This girl is off of the reservation. Put simply she sounds F-ing nutz. You might find that when you go in for the F*ck close that she keeps pulling back on the guise that "she doesn't want to hurt you" or "she doesn't want to get hurt" etc. But, if you want give it an honest shot I wouldn't recommend taking it past F*ck buddy status though.
 

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I think you need to go hard on kino with this one.. just escalate and see how far she'll go. She's already given you the green light, she obviously approves of you.. could she be testing you to c if you have the backbone to actually make a physical move? I think so.. go for it before her IL plunges.. :yes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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crawfordicon

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**** buddy status is perfectly fine with this one, but don't even think about going any further. A relationship is out of the question, I feel. She has all that baggage and it'll only weigh you down, my friend.
 
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