Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You are likely correct. But just to play devils advocate, I don't dress well and don't have the best social skills, I've been with hot girls. My friends cousin has terrible hygiene he has got a hot blonde. My other friend is over weight he has a hot girl too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Remember that show The White Shadow from the 1970s?I know a (white) guy that at that time worked with some black guys, and he once stood in line with them on the side of a building in the projects for a quickie $10 bloow job.
Is that the chemical name for sperm?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Chlorhexidine can be made in an antiseptic oral rinse, but it's usually used by Vets for animals.
I wasn't being technical, trying to get a joke in.
Yes, and a funny joke at that, but with some men on the forum occasionally advocating paying for sex it's good to know how these women operate, or don't.
not even good job, serious most guys want the good woman right on the first try, so they tend to ignore and not learn what they can do even with trashy woman, and some woman you will not know how trash she is till you are with her for sometime, but in the end the main issue is lack of confidence, that little background thinking of "I don't deserve her", or "she is too good for me", most guys with female problem have a huge confidence problem, and that is the nail and coffin of anything you need to do.
That last statement though... Many times it IS cheaper. Occasionally we get the loving sweet heart that sex doesn't cost in anyway, she's truly a blessing.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
