Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You are likely correct. But just to play devils advocate, I don't dress well and don't have the best social skills, I've been with hot girls. My friends cousin has terrible hygiene he has got a hot blonde. My other friend is over weight he has a hot girl too.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Remember that show The White Shadow from the 1970s?I know a (white) guy that at that time worked with some black guys, and he once stood in line with them on the side of a building in the projects for a quickie $10 bloow job.
Is that the chemical name for sperm?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I wasn't being technical, trying to get a joke in.
Yes, and a funny joke at that, but with some men on the forum occasionally advocating paying for sex it's good to know how these women operate, or don't.
not even good job, serious most guys want the good woman right on the first try, so they tend to ignore and not learn what they can do even with trashy woman, and some woman you will not know how trash she is till you are with her for sometime, but in the end the main issue is lack of confidence, that little background thinking of "I don't deserve her", or "she is too good for me", most guys with female problem have a huge confidence problem, and that is the nail and coffin of anything you need to do.
That last statement though... Many times it IS cheaper. Occasionally we get the loving sweet heart that sex doesn't cost in anyway, she's truly a blessing.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
