"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Prospects and action plan! List yours and comment on mine!

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Here are mine:

1. HBStudent: God kissclose and # on saturday, and have texted some. Will initiate coffeedate this week or no later than sunday.

2. HBForeign: Met her in a club 6 months ago. She communicated via texts that she wanted to meed some time. I said ok lets do it this sunday. Had a nice 2 hour date with good convo at a cool cafe. Seemed to go very good, except for the fact that I did not do any kino except hug her goodbye. Didn't hear from her for a week, and sendt a text, no response. Will call her to check what the crapp is up. Could be a golddigger.

3. HBModel/teacher: Will call her on thursday just to have a chat and hopefully spark some attraction.

4. HBYoung: She likes to text me to see if I'm going to the club, but when we meet up she never wants to make out or come home with me. I'll leave this one on the shelf :) Too bad though, shes 20 and hot as dirt.

5. HBNurse: My FBuddy of two years no longer likes me because her friend, who I have never met, have told her that I am a jerk and just using her. FYI its very mutual and she likes me. But I'n not giving up on her! I'm calling her on thursday!




Now comment and list your prospects! GET YOUR SARGE ON AND BE OFFENSIVE! :up:
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you don't have any prospects just now, list what you will do to find some.
 
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UPDATE:

1. HBStudent: Have set up coffee date later today. I'll post a report tonight! I must remember to kino escalate and loosen up a bit and don't be too serious and stiff. I'll tell myself "CHILL OUT DUDE!" if I feel stiffness arriving.

2. HBForeign: Called her and had a short but nice convo. She was in a dressing room so I made it short. It seemed that she really liked that I called. Hope to keep her warm. I have a feeling this one har a very very active social life and that she really don't have too much time for new friends/BF.

3. HBModel/teacher: No answer... Will text next week.

4. HBYoung: Maybe text.

5. HBNurse: Called her and had a short convo. She played the "I'm not that into you game". Hope to have sparked some attraction.
 
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