"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Prospects and action plan! List yours and comment on mine!

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Here are mine:

1. HBStudent: God kissclose and # on saturday, and have texted some. Will initiate coffeedate this week or no later than sunday.

2. HBForeign: Met her in a club 6 months ago. She communicated via texts that she wanted to meed some time. I said ok lets do it this sunday. Had a nice 2 hour date with good convo at a cool cafe. Seemed to go very good, except for the fact that I did not do any kino except hug her goodbye. Didn't hear from her for a week, and sendt a text, no response. Will call her to check what the crapp is up. Could be a golddigger.

3. HBModel/teacher: Will call her on thursday just to have a chat and hopefully spark some attraction.

4. HBYoung: She likes to text me to see if I'm going to the club, but when we meet up she never wants to make out or come home with me. I'll leave this one on the shelf :) Too bad though, shes 20 and hot as dirt.

5. HBNurse: My FBuddy of two years no longer likes me because her friend, who I have never met, have told her that I am a jerk and just using her. FYI its very mutual and she likes me. But I'n not giving up on her! I'm calling her on thursday!




Now comment and list your prospects! GET YOUR SARGE ON AND BE OFFENSIVE! :up:
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you don't have any prospects just now, list what you will do to find some.
 

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UPDATE:

1. HBStudent: Have set up coffee date later today. I'll post a report tonight! I must remember to kino escalate and loosen up a bit and don't be too serious and stiff. I'll tell myself "CHILL OUT DUDE!" if I feel stiffness arriving.

2. HBForeign: Called her and had a short but nice convo. She was in a dressing room so I made it short. It seemed that she really liked that I called. Hope to keep her warm. I have a feeling this one har a very very active social life and that she really don't have too much time for new friends/BF.

3. HBModel/teacher: No answer... Will text next week.

4. HBYoung: Maybe text.

5. HBNurse: Called her and had a short convo. She played the "I'm not that into you game". Hope to have sparked some attraction.
 
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