"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Prospect from friend's wife

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My buddy's wife wants to set me up with a 31 y/o teacher who he says looks great and is my type (Italian). Only problem is, she wants me to show up at the chick's second job some weekend to meet her for the first time.

I think this is a bad idea for first meeting. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad my friend's wife did it, and I wish she'd set me up with women more often, but this seems like it will be uncomfortable for her and irritating for me. It would be better for everyone involved if we met somewhere neutral and I had her undivided attention.

She'd probably be open to suggestion if I offered a different suggestion, but I can't think of anything. I don't want the pressure of having them all over to my house for a meal or something for a first meeting, that could come later. And I sure as hell don't want to be stuck footing the bill on a "blind date," which hasn't been done since "Three's Company."

Any ideas for something a little more casual? I really don't want to be interrupted by fvcking customers when I'm trying to establish rapport. Oddly I don't have a problem doing this with random chicks who happen to work in stores or whatever.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I got the wrong idea whe I read that headline!!! If possible, have a bbq, or convince your buddy to have one, some day when you know the chick can come. Its a nice, comfortable situation. or just casually meet for a drink, to introduce youselves, then set up a date if it goes alright.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yea, coffee is a great idea. It's cheap and easy to bail out of. Get this girl's # from your friend and call her up. Make light of the situation and laugh about it. Meet for coffee and go from there.
 
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