"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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He could not be more correct in his post this sight has gotten very cruel I wrote a post yesterday for some simple advice and got extremely cruel responses. What are we all here for anyway to help or hurt? Everyone has been through a hard time at some point and more respect needs to be paid even if it is a female writting the post. Let's be human and helpful to eachother where is all this anger coming from and what is this sight becomming?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I left for a few weeks and it seems like i've missed a lot for that thread to need to be stickied at the top. I hope that it was just a temporary thing that's over now.
 
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DJ Dork

This is exactly why prosemont has a point totally uncalled for I have given some good advice to some of you guys and haters need to log off!!!! DJ DORK for example is that really necessary do you not even respect the moderators?
 
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Originally posted by Quick
I left for a few weeks and it seems like i've missed a lot for that thread to need to be stickied at the top. I hope that it was just a temporary thing that's over now.
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Me too but I know two guys who were getting out of hand when I left.

I believe you may find their apology posts somewhere. Good guys, just got out of hand.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Edited post?

Hmmm... since the post was edited out, I don't objectively know if there's any merit to the more pointed advice. But the fact it is edited sure points in that direction.

Ask for advice you get advice. No guarantee it will be what you want to read.

We tend to have a hyper-responsible attitude here.

We rip other guys a new one when they screw up. That's the way it is. Honest advice, like it or not.

This just goes to illustrate the fact that women who are venting usually want a sympathetic ear, more than advice.

We men tend to want advice and strategy.
 
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I think people are being more childish than cruel.
-jlc
 
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