"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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propositioned a 33 year old woman in my dorm room,got shot down,can i do it?

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i met a hot 33 year old mature student on campus and exchanged numbers with her, all students have just registered so the opportunity to number close is high but everyone is looking to make friends rather than dating.

i was suppose to take her somewhere but i told her to come see where i was living and my room is small so we had to sit on my bed. i ran game etc and then she realised that i was maybe trying it with her cos she asked me 'so if we're going to this place to eat does that mean this is a date or friends?'

i didnt answer the question just changed subject then she was intrigued when i asked her why kissing was so important to girls and i was talking to her about how for different girls i kiss different ways and she was intrigued to know what i meant.. i think i pvssed out hard by not going in at that moment saying 'let me show u..' then lay 1 on her, i went in stroked her face then kept talking about the ways i kissed rather than actually doing it, i think at that moment she gave me the green signal.

cos i didnt follow through do u think its still possible?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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then later i gave her a massage but then she told me to not try anything cos she wasn't looking for a toyboy and has strong views about them. she liked my massage and she said i was so good she wanted to pay money, i said 'no i dont take money however u owe me one next time.' she agreed.

however when i quizzed her on the toyboy issue she kept telling me not to try it, and i could tell she was losing interest. then later i tried 1 last time by smelling her neck then trying to go for the kiss, by then after her telling me not to try it again and again i knew it was a shot in the dark.

then she told me we could be friends, i started laughing saying that im not just looking to be friends, then she asked me if i wanted a fvck buddy and that shes no the kind of girl for that.. these damn older women are always so stubborn when it comes to this kind of sh1t.. then some other BS about how she'll stop talking to me if i try it again, i countered how does she know i wouldnt stop talking to her before that happens. so she asks me so if she doesnt kiss me i wont talk to her again? i knew i was in a bind so i started talking some other sh1t.

in the end cos i promised her prior to going to my room to take her for food at some specific place she still wants me to do that.. but i feel she just wants to friendzone me. am i wasting my time?

i felt i created great interest but lost value when i didnt kiss close when i had the outlet and the whole massage thing and her thinking im trying it and telling me not to seems like i got no chance now.
 

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is it better if i pretend to lose interest in her next time we meet for food or whatever?

i think it just gave her an ego boost that a young man was sexually interested in her, making her think she still has it that a young man still wanted her though she does get attention from men her age.
 

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your on a college campus why you fkin with these old b1tches, add to the fact she is 30 something and lives in a freakin dorm shows she aint got sh1t to give you besides her cavernous vagina. should made a strong move early, not play around like its ur first date at age 15.

i would just ignore her, she knows where you stay if she wants some penis she will show up wearin something slutty eventually.
 

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You got LJBF'ed. Sorry bro, but you need to forget about this one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Julian said:
your on a college campus why you fkin with these old b1tches, add to the fact she is 30 something and lives in a freakin dorm shows she aint got sh1t to give you besides her cavernous vagina. should made a strong move early, not play around like its ur first date at age 15.

i would just ignore her, she knows where you stay if she wants some penis she will show up wearin something slutty eventually.
no i live in a dorm, she lives in an apartment by herself off campus..

but point taken.. i am fvckin with young pvssy too, i just have a thing for older women with high sex drives.
 
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