Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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propositioned a 33 year old woman in my dorm room,got shot down,can i do it?

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i met a hot 33 year old mature student on campus and exchanged numbers with her, all students have just registered so the opportunity to number close is high but everyone is looking to make friends rather than dating.

i was suppose to take her somewhere but i told her to come see where i was living and my room is small so we had to sit on my bed. i ran game etc and then she realised that i was maybe trying it with her cos she asked me 'so if we're going to this place to eat does that mean this is a date or friends?'

i didnt answer the question just changed subject then she was intrigued when i asked her why kissing was so important to girls and i was talking to her about how for different girls i kiss different ways and she was intrigued to know what i meant.. i think i pvssed out hard by not going in at that moment saying 'let me show u..' then lay 1 on her, i went in stroked her face then kept talking about the ways i kissed rather than actually doing it, i think at that moment she gave me the green signal.

cos i didnt follow through do u think its still possible?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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then later i gave her a massage but then she told me to not try anything cos she wasn't looking for a toyboy and has strong views about them. she liked my massage and she said i was so good she wanted to pay money, i said 'no i dont take money however u owe me one next time.' she agreed.

however when i quizzed her on the toyboy issue she kept telling me not to try it, and i could tell she was losing interest. then later i tried 1 last time by smelling her neck then trying to go for the kiss, by then after her telling me not to try it again and again i knew it was a shot in the dark.

then she told me we could be friends, i started laughing saying that im not just looking to be friends, then she asked me if i wanted a fvck buddy and that shes no the kind of girl for that.. these damn older women are always so stubborn when it comes to this kind of sh1t.. then some other BS about how she'll stop talking to me if i try it again, i countered how does she know i wouldnt stop talking to her before that happens. so she asks me so if she doesnt kiss me i wont talk to her again? i knew i was in a bind so i started talking some other sh1t.

in the end cos i promised her prior to going to my room to take her for food at some specific place she still wants me to do that.. but i feel she just wants to friendzone me. am i wasting my time?

i felt i created great interest but lost value when i didnt kiss close when i had the outlet and the whole massage thing and her thinking im trying it and telling me not to seems like i got no chance now.
 

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is it better if i pretend to lose interest in her next time we meet for food or whatever?

i think it just gave her an ego boost that a young man was sexually interested in her, making her think she still has it that a young man still wanted her though she does get attention from men her age.
 

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your on a college campus why you fkin with these old b1tches, add to the fact she is 30 something and lives in a freakin dorm shows she aint got sh1t to give you besides her cavernous vagina. should made a strong move early, not play around like its ur first date at age 15.

i would just ignore her, she knows where you stay if she wants some penis she will show up wearin something slutty eventually.
 

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You got LJBF'ed. Sorry bro, but you need to forget about this one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Julian said:
your on a college campus why you fkin with these old b1tches, add to the fact she is 30 something and lives in a freakin dorm shows she aint got sh1t to give you besides her cavernous vagina. should made a strong move early, not play around like its ur first date at age 15.

i would just ignore her, she knows where you stay if she wants some penis she will show up wearin something slutty eventually.
no i live in a dorm, she lives in an apartment by herself off campus..

but point taken.. i am fvckin with young pvssy too, i just have a thing for older women with high sex drives.
 
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