"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Proposing a New rule for New Signees

amoka

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Recently, I have noticed the forum has been overpopulated with new members creating accounts simply to post anything without proper filtering. I am referring to thread such as this and recently this post. All created as a first post. Pruning through these threads can take a toll on moderators. As a result, I am proposing a system where new signees are prevented from creating NEW threads until after certain time period or after posting certain number of comments.

This proposal will not only minimize such eventualities of worthless posts but also allow new signees to read through other posts and perhaps do searches rather wanting a "quick fix" to their problems.

This is just an idea. We need to keep the forum clean.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speed dawg

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I would agree with this. It would weed out the trouble makers for sure. I'd say go so far not allowing a new member to post for 7 days, and not allowing a new thread to be started for 14 days. They would lose interest I believe.
 

Tomo

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I've been on another forum where they required the poster to post reply to a certain amount of threads before being allowed to post. That could be another idea? I mean it would make a user have to actively contribute as opposed to lurking not to mention some people may have the patience to wait out the waiting period to post their what nots.
 

TheException

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Although I recognize the problem you mention.....I dont like the solutions you have presented.

1. Certain number of posts before able to create a thread - what would prevent people from just posting one letter responses on threads just in order to get their reply count up so that they can make threads? Im not interested in ruining good topics because a new member is trying to get his posts up. This rule would be assuming that new members either A) have something to contribute to an ongoing discussion and B) Will post something of worth and not just random letters and numbers in order to fulfill the post requirment

2. New members cannot make new threads for 14 days and/or post for 7 days - How would this actually aid new members? I like the fact that newbies want to come and get right into things......but they ARE GOING to have questions. I think this rule could do more harm than good and actually make new people lose interest because they cannot contribute and ask questions right off the bat.

I think the mods have done a pretty good job to mop up the spam posters actually. In my eyes this remains the best solution to the problem. Im sure its hard work.....but remember.....it was their choice to be a mod.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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backseatjuan

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This proposal will not only minimize such eventualities of worthless posts but also allow new signees to close their browser, log on to youporn.com, jerk off 100 times, get drunk and call Jennifer asking for forgiveness because of her period.
 
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