"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Proper "I Love You" Response

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The first time my girlfriend said "I love you" I just smiled and gave her a nice kiss. The second and third time, I said thanks. The fourth time, I asked "How much?" At that point, I knew she was dying to hear it, so I let it go on for a while more and then we found a moment and I told her I loved her. She started crying after that and got all emotional about it and said she loved me too.

Well, she's been saying it ever since, and I always try to weasel away without an cliche "I love you too" response. What are some of the things you guys say when your girl says that she loves you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I love you too" :rolleyes:
 
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"thats nice now cook my dinner biatch!"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I love you

"Join the queue"

I love you

"Shame, Im just using you for sex"
 
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"No you don't"
"No"
"I love who?"
"You love who?"
"El Oh El"
"Slash, Sarcasm on, Thanks, slash, Sarcasm off."
 
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Originally posted by penkitten
i bet you say that to all the guys
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meatloaf?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The greatest one I've ever used is probably

"I know"

Couple that with a grin, or a sweet smile, you can sort of swing the mood back to playful.
 
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Give her a lecture about love until she's bored to hell and stops saying I love you over and over again. Wtf is it with women that they have to say I LOVE YOU 10 times a day. I hate that ****. I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU... SHUT THE FVCK UP ALREADY!

It's like when you say "SO DO I" they feel in control.
 
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Well, I don't really mind the girlfriend saying "I love you" all the time. She is a girl afterall. It's just that most guys shouldn't let their girl control them into just parrotting it back when they want to hear it. I'm just saving mine for when I miss an anniversary or when I accidentally kill her cat or something. OR when I need some serious points for whatever reason. Either way, saying the cliche "I love you too" is one of the most unromantic things that girls have ever demanded. Any guy who says that to his girl everytime is just pussy-whipped, while she's in control of what he says.
 
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Originally posted by Raven125
I love me too...
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It's "I love me too" with a huge grin. :D
 
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