MikeYikes122
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Brett who ? Never heard of himHandyAndy said:Brett Favre isnt stupid...
come on now bible belt, you of all people know better than to sterotype.Bible_Belt said:I have seen hard-core meth addicts, guys who shoot up every day, get OFF of meth by getting ON pot. After they smoke good bud, they get too lazy to chase after meth. For them, pot is a gateway drug - the gateway to getting off harder drugs.
The government's "gateway" theory is scare-tactic bvllsh!t. Most junkies started with beer and cigarettes just as much as pot. There is nothing wrong with smoking pot, so we have to invent something bad about it - it will make you do something else that is bad.
How many of us here will have no caffeine or sugar today? Those are drugs, too.
Backbreaker, I am honestly happy for you that you are more in control of your life. But those na people are a cult, too. Their methods work by vilifying drugs as evil substances. I never agreed with that idea. I don't think a substance can be moral or immoral. It is just a substance. Like a gun, some people can handle it, and some cannot.
AA has been criticized for its Christian influence. Is NA the same way? Is it just not like that in your chapter because you live on the Left Coast?
umm. no. And this isn't your fault. These are people who just like with religion, who get in a group and put their own spin on crap and it gets passed though word of mouth.heir methods work by vilifying drugs as evil substances. I never agreed with that idea. I don't think a substance can be moral or immoral.
How many time people have said to us: "I can take it or leave it alone. Why can't he?" "Why don't you drink like a gentleman or quit?" "That fellow can't handle his liquor." "Why don't you try beer and wine?" "Lay off the hard stuff." "His will power must be weak." "He could stop if he wanted to." "She's such a sweet girl, I should think he'd stop for her sake." "The doctor told him that if he ever drank again it would kill him, but there he is all lit up again."
Now these are commonplace observations on drinkers which we hear all the time. Back of them is a world of ignorance and misunderstanding. We see that these expressions refer to people whose reactions are very different from ours.
Moderate drinkers have little trouble in giving up liquor entirely if they have good reason for it. They can take it or leave it alone.
Then we have a certain type of hard drinker. He may have the habit badly enough to gradually impair him physically and mentally. It may cause him to die a few years before his time. If a sufficiently strong reason ill health, falling in love, change of environment, or the warning of a doctor becomes operative, this man can also stop or moderate, although he may find it difficult and troublesome and may even need medical attention.
But what about the real alcoholic? He may start off as a moderate drinker; he may or may not become a continuous hard drinker; but at some stage of his drinking career he begins to lose all control of his liquor consumption, once he starts to drink.
Despite all we can say, many who are real alcoholics are not going to believe they are in that class. By every form of self- deception and experimentation, they will try to prove themselves exceptions to the rule, therefore nonalcoholic. If anyone who is showing inability to control his drinking can do the right-about- face and drink like a gentleman, our hats are off to him. Heaven knows, we have tried hard enough and long enough to drink like other people!
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
We do not like to pronounce any individual as alcoholic, but you can quickly diagnose yourself, step over to the nearest barroom and try some controlled drinking. Try to drink and stop abruptly. Try it more than once. It will not take long for you to decide, if you are honest with yourself about it. It may be worth a bad case of jitters if you get a full knowledge of your condition.
Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions, ever reminding us to place principles before personalities.
the only thing I am concerned about is not picking up a pipe or rolling up a dollar bill. that is IT. i don't give a damn what god you believe in, I dont' care if you can do so off of sheer will power, as long as you DO IT (THAT IS IF YOU ARE ADDICTED)f he thinks he can do the job in some other way, or prefers some other spiritual apiproach, encourage him to follow his own conscience.
I will repeat... nothing is wrose than a reformed drunk that has found god. NOTHING. and I literarly mean that.Bible_Belt said:ok, I just wondered. When I was a stockbroker trainee, the broker I trained under was in AA, but every time he talked about it, all I heard was "God this" and "Jesus that," and then I would stop listening. It sounded like a church group. He never went to church, though. AA was church for him.
That broker was just a weak man. He got over the booze, but he was an afc and had a psycho gf who would occasionally come in the office screaming and throwing things at him. That was entertaining and broke up the monotony of cold-calling. He also got really fat after he stopped drinking, just substituted junk food for booze. AA got him off alcohol, but I think his problem was an overall lack of strength as a person. I don't think his life got much better after he quit drinking. Being a booze junkie was more of an effect than a cause of his problems. The man just needed some personal strength.
That is a dumb generalization, but I'm not going to touch it because a thread about Josh Howard doesn't need to turn into a debate about theism.backbreaker said:But that's Christans in general. They are natural evanglist.
No, I meant that literarly. A good christain is tought from a very early age to always spread the word of god. That is not a dumb geleralzation, evangalisim is the backbone of christainty.MikeYikes122 said:That is a dumb generalization, but I'm not going to touch it because a thread about Josh Howard doesn't need to turn into a debate about theism.
Anyway, back to my OP. Howard isn't stupid for getting high. I don't even have a problem with him ripping his bong during the season. Like he says, most NBA players do.
Howard is a retard for going on a nationally syndicated radio program and openly admitting that he smokes weed - something that is still illegal. And on top of that, the radio hosts are practically telling him to stop.
Evangelism isn't the backbone of Christianity. You could make an argument that spreading the word of God is, but that is completely different. The way you phrased it, you made it sound like Christians are forcing their religion people.backbreaker said:No, I meant that literarly. A good christain is tought from a very early age to always spread the word of god. That is not a dumb geleralzation, evangalisim is the backbone of christainty.
You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. You might be right in saying that most Christians believe their religion is the "ultimate truth" (though I don't think that). But you are completely wrong about Christians thinking everyone who doesn't believe the word of God is doomed to hell. The underlying idea of Christianity isn't "evangelism" or whatever the hell you tried to say before, it's that everyone is saved in the end and that God has everlasting mercy. That's why there are ideas of Purgatory and original sin.A good Christan is tought 1) his or her religion is the ultimate truth and that 2) if you do not accecpt the word of god, their god, you will go to hell. plain and simple. therefore it's only right to save your life, and the only way to do so is to spread the word to you, the non believer.
Therefore you are at a quandrum with christans. it just IS. it's not right. not wrong. notice I didn't say that evangalism is wrong. it just IS.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.