Bible_Belt said:
I have seen hard-core meth addicts, guys who shoot up every day, get OFF of meth by getting ON pot. After they smoke good bud, they get too lazy to chase after meth. For them, pot is a gateway drug - the gateway to getting off harder drugs.
The government's "gateway" theory is scare-tactic bvllsh!t. Most junkies started with beer and cigarettes just as much as pot. There is nothing wrong with smoking pot, so we have to invent something bad about it - it will make you do something else that is bad.
How many of us here will have no caffeine or sugar today? Those are drugs, too.
Backbreaker, I am honestly happy for you that you are more in control of your life. But those na people are a cult, too. Their methods work by vilifying drugs as evil substances. I never agreed with that idea. I don't think a substance can be moral or immoral. It is just a substance. Like a gun, some people can handle it, and some cannot.
AA has been criticized for its Christian influence. Is NA the same way? Is it just not like that in your chapter because you live on the Left Coast?
come on now bible belt, you of all people know better than to sterotype.
First of all let me say that I know what you are talking about becuase I see it everyday. Aa/NA/CA is no different than anywhere else. You have some people there for the wrong reasons. I know alot of guys with 10 years who think they are demi gods and go just because they are attention *****s and like the auora that surrounds that whole..."thing". NA/CA is their life.
But to say that it's a cult is just jibberish and I think you know that is true. It has some coltish qualities.. meeting everyday, sometimes more than once. I don't like it. God no. wlel it's not that bad actually. But I have other things (and a certain pregant female) I would rather be doing. But you know what I really woudln't rather be doing? Getting ****ed up.
I used to go to 2 meetings a day when i started. I needed it. After that, I went down to about a meeting a day. Now I go to about 3 or 4 a week. I don't have to have a meeting everyday, i'm past that point.
you are right where I shouldnt' have said that about weed. that came out wrong and you are actually 100% correct.
But you have alot, alot of misconceptions about NA/AA/CA. for crist's sake i'm an athiest if there ever was one and I'm in NA. it's not a religion or a cult or antyhing of that matter. While I do agree, the worst evangeloist is newly reformed drunk, i see it everyday... even had a guy; with less clean time than myself, a hell of alot less (and I'm at almost 2 years now) tell me if If I don't accecpt god I will not only use again, I will burn in hell. in the middle of a meeting no less. but you take what it is ment for you and leave th rest. the founder of AA was agnostic/borderline athiest and his co founder was a stone cold athiest.
there are some things I don't agree with.. I dont' go to meetings held inside churches. I don't go to ones that revolve TOO much around "god".. all have it to some extent but some you can't say a word unless it has to do with god.
heir methods work by vilifying drugs as evil substances. I never agreed with that idea. I don't think a substance can be moral or immoral.
umm. no. And this isn't your fault. These are people who just like with religion, who get in a group and put their own spin on crap and it gets passed though word of mouth.
the "big book" or the AA book,which I read if not daily, damn near, states as clear as the day is bright "
from "there is a solution, chapter 2"
How many time people have said to us: "I can take it or leave it alone. Why can't he?" "Why don't you drink like a gentleman or quit?" "That fellow can't handle his liquor." "Why don't you try beer and wine?" "Lay off the hard stuff." "His will power must be weak." "He could stop if he wanted to." "She's such a sweet girl, I should think he'd stop for her sake." "The doctor told him that if he ever drank again it would kill him, but there he is all lit up again."
Now these are commonplace observations on drinkers which we hear all the time. Back of them is a world of ignorance and misunderstanding. We see that these expressions refer to people whose reactions are very different from ours.
Moderate drinkers have little trouble in giving up liquor entirely if they have good reason for it. They can take it or leave it alone.
Then we have a certain type of hard drinker. He may have the habit badly enough to gradually impair him physically and mentally. It may cause him to die a few years before his time. If a sufficiently strong reason ill health, falling in love, change of environment, or the warning of a doctor becomes operative, this man can also stop or moderate, although he may find it difficult and troublesome and may even need medical attention.
But what about the real alcoholic? He may start off as a moderate drinker; he may or may not become a continuous hard drinker; but at some stage of his drinking career he begins to lose all control of his liquor consumption, once he starts to drink.
what you don't seem to get what I am saying is that you are confusing a moderate "drinker" with someone like me, who is a stone cold drug addict. no where in the big book does it say drugs are BAD and EVIL things. In fact, in most meetings i go to, we all admit, if we could do drugs, without the consequences, we WOULDN'T BE HERE! it's not the drug. it's the consequences of using the drug that is kicking our ass.
From more about alcholism
Despite all we can say, many who are real alcoholics are not going to believe they are in that class. By every form of self- deception and experimentation, they will try to prove themselves exceptions to the rule, therefore nonalcoholic. If anyone who is showing inability to control his drinking can do the right-about- face and drink like a gentleman, our hats are off to him. Heaven knows, we have tried hard enough and long enough to drink like other people!
maybe you have stopped. maybe you can. I can't speak for you. I couldn't stop withotu some form of outside help. I tried just using cocaine, just using on weekends, limting my amount of use, just using by myself, just using around other people, i thought that when I m oved I just would not want to use anymore, I even tried the freakin I-Doser thing online hoping it would give me enough of a buzz to not want to use again. that's how sick I was.
you will not that everything I said comes verbatium out of hte big book. I'm a big book scholar