"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Proof that loving yourself is the key to getting women.

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Recently, I've come to understand that a friend of mine has recently developed quite strong feelings towards me. Without sounding too bigheaded, it's actually become quite an inconvenience, due to the fact that she has a boyfriend. I don't like her in the same way, because we've been friends for some time now, and quite frankly, I have bigger fish to fry.

So, I thought I'd take advantage of our friendship and ask her straight out why she likes me so much. She said, "it is your impulsive and care free nature that I find so admirable, you're not as analytical as other guys."

So they you go, bang. In one sentence this girl has completely summed up my view on life, and why I'm a better catch than some other guys.

Now I just need to gain the confidence to do cold approaches...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm in the Mood

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Sounds good! Sometimes it's really hard not to be analytical, at least for a guy like me. You can get trapped inside your own head, and there's no way out.
 

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I completely agree with OP. Focus on yourself, and the rest will come to you. But don't expect lots of results without some effort. lol
 

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initiatorhater06 said:
women don't have to love themself in order to get men
Then go be a woman.

For most men (and some special women), our existence is more than a vapid race to who is more attractive and how much more stuff I have than you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alle_Gory said:
Then go be a woman.

For most men (and some special women), our existence is more than a vapid race to who is more attractive and how much more stuff I have than you.
See this a lot.
 

Alle_Gory

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konmai said:
See this a lot.
It's true, but you'll see here how we don't judge people on wealth or how much crap they have amassed through life, but through character. We judge women based on what they do, they judge us based on what we have and what we can do for them. :down:

This is why I say that most women are worthless. I don't know if it's simply caused by environment or something else, but I have heard it's better in other countries.
 

initiatorhater06

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Alle_Gory said:
Then go be a woman.

For most men (and some special women), our existence is more than a vapid race to who is more attractive and how much more stuff I have than you.
Basically my point is that a woman, or girl can be bratty or boring, have no life, she can *****, whine a lot, complain, have no goals, have no passion for anything, be pessimistic, overall, be negative everything and guys will still accept her as long as she is physically good-looking
 
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