"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Proof that loving yourself is the key to getting women.

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Recently, I've come to understand that a friend of mine has recently developed quite strong feelings towards me. Without sounding too bigheaded, it's actually become quite an inconvenience, due to the fact that she has a boyfriend. I don't like her in the same way, because we've been friends for some time now, and quite frankly, I have bigger fish to fry.

So, I thought I'd take advantage of our friendship and ask her straight out why she likes me so much. She said, "it is your impulsive and care free nature that I find so admirable, you're not as analytical as other guys."

So they you go, bang. In one sentence this girl has completely summed up my view on life, and why I'm a better catch than some other guys.

Now I just need to gain the confidence to do cold approaches...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm in the Mood

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Sounds good! Sometimes it's really hard not to be analytical, at least for a guy like me. You can get trapped inside your own head, and there's no way out.
 

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I completely agree with OP. Focus on yourself, and the rest will come to you. But don't expect lots of results without some effort. lol
 

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initiatorhater06 said:
women don't have to love themself in order to get men
Then go be a woman.

For most men (and some special women), our existence is more than a vapid race to who is more attractive and how much more stuff I have than you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alle_Gory said:
Then go be a woman.

For most men (and some special women), our existence is more than a vapid race to who is more attractive and how much more stuff I have than you.
See this a lot.
 

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konmai said:
See this a lot.
It's true, but you'll see here how we don't judge people on wealth or how much crap they have amassed through life, but through character. We judge women based on what they do, they judge us based on what we have and what we can do for them. :down:

This is why I say that most women are worthless. I don't know if it's simply caused by environment or something else, but I have heard it's better in other countries.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Then go be a woman.

For most men (and some special women), our existence is more than a vapid race to who is more attractive and how much more stuff I have than you.
Basically my point is that a woman, or girl can be bratty or boring, have no life, she can *****, whine a lot, complain, have no goals, have no passion for anything, be pessimistic, overall, be negative everything and guys will still accept her as long as she is physically good-looking
 
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