"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Proof Positive of Sexual Interest

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There is a simple, foolproof way of knowing whether a woman is sexually interested. She will be nervous. She will lose her composure. If she is relaxed, at ease, carefree, she is NOT sexually interested.

Even the coolest of girls will give a "tell" at some point, often involuntarily. It doesn't matter if she's trying to remain totally expressionless; eventually there will be a tell. This could be as simple as a small facial tick. She might walk away when she gets sexually aroused. She might freeze up completely and just stare.

Bottom line: if a woman acts "normally" she has no sexual attraction. If she is tense, angry, frustrated, sexual attraction.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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If she is tense, angry, frustrated, sexual attraction.
I have an Italian woman, 27, always acting that way with me. I don't want her and I let her know in various ways that I don't want her. She's already crossed me (and talked behind my back with several I know) so she's forever on my sh!tlist. I try to keep my interaction with her at a minimum. I need a woman that's gonna be servile towards me and cater at my feet. I don't want no sh!t.
 

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This is incorrect. Some women respond like you describe, some do not. You try like everyone else to oversimplify the art and skill that it is to read a woman, it also promotes assumptions and leaves out reasoning. Treating a woman like she's sexually attracted every time she's angry, frustrated or tense will fail 9/10, because she acts like that for a different reason and your ignorance isn't helping the situation.

A woman who's relaxed, at ease and carefree could very well be sexually attracted, but you'll assume they're not and thus won't discover that they could be.

The only foolproof way of knowing if she's sexually attracted is making advances to fvck her and not finding resistance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What’s interesting is some ONS pickups are very serious and almost business-like. The chick can be seemingly pissed off and/or deadpan serious from the time she meets the guy until the time they leave together.
Lol these are always my most mind-boggling lays
 

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Honestly, I don't get nervous at all, unless a girl is at least an 8. She has to be a stone cold fox for me to get nervous. A garden variety 7 is pleasant, even a bit exciting. 6's don't do it for me at all.

Women are the same way: an average to decent looking guy is either boring to pleasant to look at, talk with. Get her around a legit hot guy and it all changes. It's just a matter of what tier you're in.
 
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