Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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this is dedicated to all you guys who can't find a date to prom and are pissed off. this is my story and it might make you feel better. here they are, not in chronological order, but in order of how sh***y they made me feel.

4. girl laughed at me.

3. another girl said yes, but days later had to cancel caus she would be out of town that weekend.

2. i found out my girlfriend was a ***** and had 3 f*** buddies behind my back, which she admitted to my face.

and the #1 biggest disappointment is...

1. my good friend, who said yes, recently became very sick and is in the hospital (shes okay though, just won't be let out till 3 weeks after prom)

so you see guys, rejection is no big deal. at least you don't have a demon spirit who loves c***blocking
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ARrocket

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Wow man that sucks....

While we're on the topic of prom....does anybody have any advice as to what to expect for the actual dance itself? I've never slow danced in my life!
 

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I dont think a girl having three fb's is something she should be proud of. That hurts her more than you, shes probably to stupid to realize that though.

Sorry about your prom dude
 

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damn dude that sucks balls I am truly sorry.
 

Purple-Haze

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ARrocket said:
Wow man that sucks....

While we're on the topic of prom....does anybody have any advice as to what to expect for the actual dance itself? I've never slow danced in my life!
If it's possible, get someone to practice with. Put on some nice, slow song and dance away.

Learn where to place your hands, how to move your feet, etc.

Practice a few times till you are comfortable.

My experience has been that most people are pretty decent when it comes to slow dancing (they just need to figure out where their hands go).

Good luck!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Purple-Haze

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carreyreincarnate1 said:
this is dedicated to all you guys who can't find a date to prom and are pissed off. this is my story and it might make you feel better. here they are, not in chronological order, but in order of how sh***y they made me feel.

4. girl laughed at me.

3. another girl said yes, but days later had to cancel caus she would be out of town that weekend.

2. i found out my girlfriend was a ***** and had 3 f*** buddies behind my back, which she admitted to my face.

and the #1 biggest disappointment is...

1. my good friend, who said yes, recently became very sick and is in the hospital (shes okay though, just won't be let out till 3 weeks after prom)

so you see guys, rejection is no big deal. at least you don't have a demon spirit who loves c***blocking
Wow. You've had a bad week/month.

Do you still plan to go to the prom?

You're a pretty cool guy for sharing your experience with others to give them some perspective...!
 
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ya dude, i still plan on going and im gonna keep trying to get a date. sooner or later its gonna work out.
 

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carreyreincarnate1 said:
ya dude, i still plan on going and im gonna keep trying to get a date. sooner or later its gonna work out.
With an attitude like yours, I am confident it will

Have fun at the prom carrey!
 

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I like the attutide carrey. Try not to focus too much on the negatives atleast you got a few girls to say yes. Do not ask a girl-friend of yours, that's like the last stop when everything has failed. Keep hunting man, I believe in you and everybody else here does. Why do you think you are having trouble getting a prom date right now anyway.
 
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thanks guys for all the support. im having trouble finding a date caus i don't want to settle for a girl-friend. its tough but its worth trying. again, thanks for all ur support and ill let u all know how it goes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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everything will fine man. Dont settle for girlfriends if you dont want them. Just be happy and high spirit and have fun. having that attitude is bound to attract one interesting lady, if not, well your got one great person left to take who means the whole world, YOURSELF. remember your the prize anyone, who gets you is lucky, your one-of-a-kind. Now go out there and have fun.
 

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Ey Carrey, I dont know how the whole Prom thing works at your school but when I went last year I ended up not having a date, long story, but it turned out ok because at the dance itself I was able to take other guy's dates and ended up having a great time .
 

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Purple-Haze said:
If it's possible, get someone to practice with. Put on some nice, slow song and dance away.

Learn where to place your hands, how to move your feet, etc.

Practice a few times till you are comfortable.

My experience has been that most people are pretty decent when it comes to slow dancing (they just need to figure out where their hands go).

Good luck!
Well, I don't think I have anyone to practice with....so, do I just.....sway to the music? lol.
 
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