"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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this is dedicated to all you guys who can't find a date to prom and are pissed off. this is my story and it might make you feel better. here they are, not in chronological order, but in order of how sh***y they made me feel.

4. girl laughed at me.

3. another girl said yes, but days later had to cancel caus she would be out of town that weekend.

2. i found out my girlfriend was a ***** and had 3 f*** buddies behind my back, which she admitted to my face.

and the #1 biggest disappointment is...

1. my good friend, who said yes, recently became very sick and is in the hospital (shes okay though, just won't be let out till 3 weeks after prom)

so you see guys, rejection is no big deal. at least you don't have a demon spirit who loves c***blocking
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow man that sucks....

While we're on the topic of prom....does anybody have any advice as to what to expect for the actual dance itself? I've never slow danced in my life!
 

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I dont think a girl having three fb's is something she should be proud of. That hurts her more than you, shes probably to stupid to realize that though.

Sorry about your prom dude
 

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damn dude that sucks balls I am truly sorry.
 

Purple-Haze

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ARrocket said:
Wow man that sucks....

While we're on the topic of prom....does anybody have any advice as to what to expect for the actual dance itself? I've never slow danced in my life!
If it's possible, get someone to practice with. Put on some nice, slow song and dance away.

Learn where to place your hands, how to move your feet, etc.

Practice a few times till you are comfortable.

My experience has been that most people are pretty decent when it comes to slow dancing (they just need to figure out where their hands go).

Good luck!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Purple-Haze

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carreyreincarnate1 said:
this is dedicated to all you guys who can't find a date to prom and are pissed off. this is my story and it might make you feel better. here they are, not in chronological order, but in order of how sh***y they made me feel.

4. girl laughed at me.

3. another girl said yes, but days later had to cancel caus she would be out of town that weekend.

2. i found out my girlfriend was a ***** and had 3 f*** buddies behind my back, which she admitted to my face.

and the #1 biggest disappointment is...

1. my good friend, who said yes, recently became very sick and is in the hospital (shes okay though, just won't be let out till 3 weeks after prom)

so you see guys, rejection is no big deal. at least you don't have a demon spirit who loves c***blocking
Wow. You've had a bad week/month.

Do you still plan to go to the prom?

You're a pretty cool guy for sharing your experience with others to give them some perspective...!
 
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ya dude, i still plan on going and im gonna keep trying to get a date. sooner or later its gonna work out.
 

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carreyreincarnate1 said:
ya dude, i still plan on going and im gonna keep trying to get a date. sooner or later its gonna work out.
With an attitude like yours, I am confident it will

Have fun at the prom carrey!
 

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I like the attutide carrey. Try not to focus too much on the negatives atleast you got a few girls to say yes. Do not ask a girl-friend of yours, that's like the last stop when everything has failed. Keep hunting man, I believe in you and everybody else here does. Why do you think you are having trouble getting a prom date right now anyway.
 
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thanks guys for all the support. im having trouble finding a date caus i don't want to settle for a girl-friend. its tough but its worth trying. again, thanks for all ur support and ill let u all know how it goes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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everything will fine man. Dont settle for girlfriends if you dont want them. Just be happy and high spirit and have fun. having that attitude is bound to attract one interesting lady, if not, well your got one great person left to take who means the whole world, YOURSELF. remember your the prize anyone, who gets you is lucky, your one-of-a-kind. Now go out there and have fun.
 

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Ey Carrey, I dont know how the whole Prom thing works at your school but when I went last year I ended up not having a date, long story, but it turned out ok because at the dance itself I was able to take other guy's dates and ended up having a great time .
 

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Purple-Haze said:
If it's possible, get someone to practice with. Put on some nice, slow song and dance away.

Learn where to place your hands, how to move your feet, etc.

Practice a few times till you are comfortable.

My experience has been that most people are pretty decent when it comes to slow dancing (they just need to figure out where their hands go).

Good luck!
Well, I don't think I have anyone to practice with....so, do I just.....sway to the music? lol.
 
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