"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prom Problem

Wildstyle

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Wats up guys,

I need some advice.

I asked this girl i wanted to take to prom(oneitis, crush, watevea u wanna call it) and some guy beat me to it.

This girl knew i liked her and I knew she liked me, but i kept it to the last minute to ask, and shes goin with one of her guy friends.

Now, Ive got 2 weeks before prom and I dont know if I shud go alone, get high and go, or just go to the after party.

Im lost, i dont wanna make this look bad cuz its a once in lifetime thing.

thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fly-err

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You still have 2 weeks. Find someone else or a group. Prom is all about having fun, don't go high or you won't know whats going on. In your words, its a once in a lifetime thing.
 

Captain

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Wildstyle said:
Wats up guys,

I need some advice.

I asked this girl i wanted to take to prom(oneitis, crush, watevea u wanna call it) and some guy beat me to it.

This girl knew i liked her and I knew she liked me, but i kept it to the last minute to ask, and shes goin with one of her guy friends.

Now, Ive got 2 weeks before prom and I dont know if I shud go alone, get high and go, or just go to the after party.

Im lost, i dont wanna make this look bad cuz its a once in lifetime thing.

thanks.
One type of guys miss their prom.... the losers. You don't need a woman to go. Get out there and have fun.
 

Bladerunner

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Yeah, I went stag to mine with a group of friends and had a hell of a lot of fun. As one of my friends said to me when we got there, "Now is when all the girls who have been crushing on you for years get to let loose." and damn was he right :D
 

ENIGMA16

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Dates at prom aren't really a big deal unless the two going together make a big deal out of it. If this is just a guy friend I'm guessing you'll have absolutely no problem dancing with her or making a move on her. You're really blowing this out of proportion. Go find another date or go stag. Don't go high. Have fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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