"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prom Problem

Wildstyle

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Wats up guys,

I need some advice.

I asked this girl i wanted to take to prom(oneitis, crush, watevea u wanna call it) and some guy beat me to it.

This girl knew i liked her and I knew she liked me, but i kept it to the last minute to ask, and shes goin with one of her guy friends.

Now, Ive got 2 weeks before prom and I dont know if I shud go alone, get high and go, or just go to the after party.

Im lost, i dont wanna make this look bad cuz its a once in lifetime thing.

thanks.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Fly-err

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You still have 2 weeks. Find someone else or a group. Prom is all about having fun, don't go high or you won't know whats going on. In your words, its a once in a lifetime thing.
 

Captain

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Wildstyle said:
Wats up guys,

I need some advice.

I asked this girl i wanted to take to prom(oneitis, crush, watevea u wanna call it) and some guy beat me to it.

This girl knew i liked her and I knew she liked me, but i kept it to the last minute to ask, and shes goin with one of her guy friends.

Now, Ive got 2 weeks before prom and I dont know if I shud go alone, get high and go, or just go to the after party.

Im lost, i dont wanna make this look bad cuz its a once in lifetime thing.

thanks.
One type of guys miss their prom.... the losers. You don't need a woman to go. Get out there and have fun.
 

Bladerunner

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Yeah, I went stag to mine with a group of friends and had a hell of a lot of fun. As one of my friends said to me when we got there, "Now is when all the girls who have been crushing on you for years get to let loose." and damn was he right :D
 

ENIGMA16

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Dates at prom aren't really a big deal unless the two going together make a big deal out of it. If this is just a guy friend I'm guessing you'll have absolutely no problem dancing with her or making a move on her. You're really blowing this out of proportion. Go find another date or go stag. Don't go high. Have fun.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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