"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prom Problem

Wildstyle

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Wats up guys,

I need some advice.

I asked this girl i wanted to take to prom(oneitis, crush, watevea u wanna call it) and some guy beat me to it.

This girl knew i liked her and I knew she liked me, but i kept it to the last minute to ask, and shes goin with one of her guy friends.

Now, Ive got 2 weeks before prom and I dont know if I shud go alone, get high and go, or just go to the after party.

Im lost, i dont wanna make this look bad cuz its a once in lifetime thing.

thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fly-err

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You still have 2 weeks. Find someone else or a group. Prom is all about having fun, don't go high or you won't know whats going on. In your words, its a once in a lifetime thing.
 

Captain

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Wildstyle said:
Wats up guys,

I need some advice.

I asked this girl i wanted to take to prom(oneitis, crush, watevea u wanna call it) and some guy beat me to it.

This girl knew i liked her and I knew she liked me, but i kept it to the last minute to ask, and shes goin with one of her guy friends.

Now, Ive got 2 weeks before prom and I dont know if I shud go alone, get high and go, or just go to the after party.

Im lost, i dont wanna make this look bad cuz its a once in lifetime thing.

thanks.
One type of guys miss their prom.... the losers. You don't need a woman to go. Get out there and have fun.
 

Bladerunner

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Yeah, I went stag to mine with a group of friends and had a hell of a lot of fun. As one of my friends said to me when we got there, "Now is when all the girls who have been crushing on you for years get to let loose." and damn was he right :D
 

ENIGMA16

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Dates at prom aren't really a big deal unless the two going together make a big deal out of it. If this is just a guy friend I'm guessing you'll have absolutely no problem dancing with her or making a move on her. You're really blowing this out of proportion. Go find another date or go stag. Don't go high. Have fun.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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