"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I went to prom with this girl who is pretty much un dj'able. Junior prom... This is her first highschool dance, never had a boyfriend, never kissed a guy ect. ect. She looks very good (about an 8), just really really shy. We went with some friends, and one of mine (guy) is good friends with her. Anyhow, during the night Im laying kino, grinding, shes wanting to grind with me and all that. After we go and chill at her friends house to sleep over we all crash on the couch. She kinda ignores me the entire time and is massaging my friend's shoulders and **** like that. Of course I had another girl sittin next to me wanting to get with me... BUT I had enough decency to not do anything. I guess I kinda got a little feelings for this girl, but I aint gonna try too terribly hard with her. She does happen to have a crush on my friend... But hes in a relationship. Think something like a girl version of AFC... But worse with her. What should I do? Ignore it? Or what. :confused:
Other than that, I had a hell of a time. :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I remember reading somewhere that if a girl ignore you.. (which is disrespect) you should show her that you won't tolerate it. You were her date that evening and she blatanly shows you disrespect by dissing you the night of prom and hitting on your boy. I'm guessing you'll see her tomorrow in school. Me being you I wouldn't labor on it too much, just go about your business. You say there was a girl sitting next to you that night that wants to get with you... use this to your advantage. Hang out with that other chick so that the disser sees what shes missing out on. Competition breeds Jealousy which will make you more attractive in her eyes. If she sees other girls clamoring over you (and she has interest in your) she will see you as a hot commodity and worth more to her. We want what we cant have.. remember this. Never succumb to a womans shyt tests... just adapt and overcome!
 
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So you went to prom with a girl that fancies your mate, wtf. . .
Get your own birds.

If you want to get with her, dont ignore it, show you can take it, maybe use the jealousy trick.


Roll with the punches
 
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Oh she facied me just fine. She just doesn't know jack **** about love and how a girl is supposed to act I guess. Maybe Im over thinking this too much. And we all know overthinking girls is pretty bad. :)
 
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Originally posted by crimsonclockwork
She just doesn't know jack **** about love and how a girl is supposed to act I guess.
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Welcome to the game of love if you want to call it that. There isn't a sure fire way for them to act. They play games.. its what they do. But if you can act cool, calm, and rise above it all YOU WILL PASS HER SHYT TESTS! Beware though, that there is a difference between a girl who occasionally throws a test at you (which is normal) and a girl who plays nothing but games. These are the girls you need to watch out for. "how a girl is supposed to act".. no such thing.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Man... This girl is shy, low self esteem, doesn't like her image too much. Im just tryin to get a feel if she is playing games or what. Maybe I was blowing off a little steam when I posted the first post. Anyway, might as well go for it for a few days and see what happens. She says she had a hell of a time at prom. And how do you deal with these kinds of girls anyway? Can't treat them like the regular ones. :confused:
 
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