"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prom Night

AdrenalineJunkie

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Hey guys, I'm new here, I just made an account.
I'm a high school student turning 18 in July, I'm friends with many people, I'm athletic, and fairly good looking, but especially good looking on good days. Such was one "good day" during prom. In terms of the superficial social hierarchy, I'm not on top, however I am pretty close i guess you can say (this is important to mention)... the thing is that I haven't really lived my high school social life to it's fullest. Simply because of me directing my time and energy into my ambitions; skydiving, snowboarding, surfing, loving life, as well as some other things like wanting to change the world through engineering(my future career).

Now to the story, there's this gorgeous girl at my school, her name is Sarah, one of the... i guess you can say really "popular" ones. At first i never really talked to her, assumed her as superficial... however at school we had the same grade 12 physics course, man this girl is smart as hell! We started talking, and joking with each other, she always calls me steroids cause apparently I'm muscular enough to look like it... haha no im not . I wouldn't say we're exactly great friends or anything, just casual if anything.

So at prom, she comes up to me... yells "steroids, come heree " she hugs me, and then we talked for about a minute, she mentioned I look great, then we walked back to our different tables. Later that night this is our conversation:

Sarah: "eyy Steroids, what are you doing after prom?"
Me: Prolly Megan's it's close to my house, hbu you
Sarah: "Aw you shoulda went to dorms!! :(" <-with all her friends
Me: "haha you're making me feel bad"
Sarah: "Well, you shouldd...woww you look great, I underestimated youu..."
Me: "You underestimated my Swag?.. haha"
Sarah: "Yeah, ye knoww", *glances at my d**k so that I notice her checking me out* "just kidding... ahha" <- i noticed she wasn't really kidding that much
Me: "Haha you look great too" I check her out make sure she notices...

Later that night we danced to some beats on the dance floor... during a slow song I tried to find her but couldn't in time. I noticed she looked kind of sad, however right after I saw her guy friend come talk to her for a bit, then they slow danced. (this guy friend is just a friend, so I'm not worried, he has a girlfriend) Also, Sarah's prom date was kind of a default friend from her group, and I didn't ask her cause I only started having interest in her a week before prom.

Anyways, I'm going to see her a day and a half from now, and I need you guys to tell me what you think... I'm really interested in her, and I want something to happen between us. We have many similar interests, and there was definitely some moments on sexual chemistry between us. How should I go about pursuing her further? :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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