"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Prom Night

AdrenalineJunkie

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Hey guys, I'm new here, I just made an account.
I'm a high school student turning 18 in July, I'm friends with many people, I'm athletic, and fairly good looking, but especially good looking on good days. Such was one "good day" during prom. In terms of the superficial social hierarchy, I'm not on top, however I am pretty close i guess you can say (this is important to mention)... the thing is that I haven't really lived my high school social life to it's fullest. Simply because of me directing my time and energy into my ambitions; skydiving, snowboarding, surfing, loving life, as well as some other things like wanting to change the world through engineering(my future career).

Now to the story, there's this gorgeous girl at my school, her name is Sarah, one of the... i guess you can say really "popular" ones. At first i never really talked to her, assumed her as superficial... however at school we had the same grade 12 physics course, man this girl is smart as hell! We started talking, and joking with each other, she always calls me steroids cause apparently I'm muscular enough to look like it... haha no im not . I wouldn't say we're exactly great friends or anything, just casual if anything.

So at prom, she comes up to me... yells "steroids, come heree " she hugs me, and then we talked for about a minute, she mentioned I look great, then we walked back to our different tables. Later that night this is our conversation:

Sarah: "eyy Steroids, what are you doing after prom?"
Me: Prolly Megan's it's close to my house, hbu you
Sarah: "Aw you shoulda went to dorms!! :(" <-with all her friends
Me: "haha you're making me feel bad"
Sarah: "Well, you shouldd...woww you look great, I underestimated youu..."
Me: "You underestimated my Swag?.. haha"
Sarah: "Yeah, ye knoww", *glances at my d**k so that I notice her checking me out* "just kidding... ahha" <- i noticed she wasn't really kidding that much
Me: "Haha you look great too" I check her out make sure she notices...

Later that night we danced to some beats on the dance floor... during a slow song I tried to find her but couldn't in time. I noticed she looked kind of sad, however right after I saw her guy friend come talk to her for a bit, then they slow danced. (this guy friend is just a friend, so I'm not worried, he has a girlfriend) Also, Sarah's prom date was kind of a default friend from her group, and I didn't ask her cause I only started having interest in her a week before prom.

Anyways, I'm going to see her a day and a half from now, and I need you guys to tell me what you think... I'm really interested in her, and I want something to happen between us. We have many similar interests, and there was definitely some moments on sexual chemistry between us. How should I go about pursuing her further? :p
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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