There's a girl in one of my classes who I only met this year. My teacher mentioned prom tickets for sale, and cause I sit near this girl, I asked out of what I meant as curiousity if she was going to prom. I was pretty sure she had a bf but I wasn't sure so I figured this would get me my answer. She apparently interpreted it as asking her to prom and the situation became sort of awkward. Still I didn't really think to much of it. Then my friend says to me today, yo u asked sosandso to prom? It caught me off gaurd cause that was never my intention. However the more I thought about it the more I see how she could have interpreted it that way. Anyway I figured I would just say something like 'So I I hear I asked you to prom . I know this may be devastating, but I was just curious. all while essentially grinning.' Toss me your two cents fellaz.
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Prom Misunderstanding
- Thread starter HighFlyer
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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UnexpectedTeen
Don Juan
Tell her the truth. Tell that you have no interest in her. tell her to stop ruining your reputation. ........
Chill!
Chill!
Turalyon999
Don Juan
Another instance of Woman's notorious selective hearing. I agree, tell the truth, that you never asked her to prom, you only asked if her if she was going. Don't let these girls get away with their selective hearing bs.