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Prom issues--> Go or not?

nomorechump

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I would kindly ask that you do not flame a novice:

Prom is coming up and I'm not even sure if i should go. Seriously, I just can't find a girl that interests me. Not that i think im too good for anyone or that no girls like me, but its just im not clicking with anyone.

If i dont go id feel like i missed out on a once in a life time event. However, I just dunno who to date and i dont wanna go alone.

I'm not sure. Should i just settle with any girl?

Im actually not even allowed to date (parents are VERY strict and I cannot beat my dad up lol).
So u think i should go or not? ( not the best question i know but i want some opinion)

I just cant find any girl that interests me + am not allowed to even date.

Thanks
 
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ThaDJ

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dude just go alone if i cant find a date... its not that big of an issue
 

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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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RaMar

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however if you do go alone do not get your picture taken because then you will look like a loser when they publish the prom book with everyone's picture in it.
 

PEACEDJ

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you have some obsticals in your way, but don't let that deter you from a chance to meet a girl that might be actually interested in you at prom. It is not in the Constitution that you HAVE to go with a date, (most of the time you ditch the date anyway). I'd say dont worry about getting a date, and worry about what you're going to wear to the prom. Don't let small things get in the way for you to have a kickass time air humping all the girls who are going to prom... its highschool, one night, one chance thing. Don't ruin it.
 
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