"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Prom/"I don't think he likes me"

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LaDanian Tomlinson

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I just posted the other day about this girl that was down to have sex and then didn't want to a couple days later here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158760
So pretty much I heard from my friend that she told his gf that she doesn't think I like her. I don't know wtf that means because I've been gaming her and acting like a dj with cf, neg hits, not showing too much interest. We've hooked up and hung out enough to where I think I've shown that I like her. I haven't been saying **** like "You're so beautiful" and "I love hanging out with you". I don't know if she wants me to say that and if thats the only way she would understand that I like her? I really don't get why she would say "I don't think he likes me"? Can someone explain that to me.
Also, shes a senior in high school and Prom is in a month and a half. I told her that I want one of my buddies to go if I'm gonna go because I'm 20 shes 18 and I wouldn't have any friends there. So I'm trying to make that happen. But then last night shes like "I want to go to Prom with you but I need to know soon because otherwise I'm gonna find someone else". I just said "well I already told you that I want one of my friends to go". What the hell does that mean? Shouldn't I be insulted by that? How the hell should I handle this situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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K.Pez

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you shouldn't be insulted by that. prom is a big deal and she doesn't have a lot of time to wait if she does indeed need to get another date.

if you want a friend to come, put more effort into getting that ball rolling. find a friend, then ask this girl if she knows anyone who needs a date.
 
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PerfectCircle

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women stick around til they prove you like them then they either marry or leave you.
 
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