"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Prom/"I don't think he likes me"

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I just posted the other day about this girl that was down to have sex and then didn't want to a couple days later here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=158760
So pretty much I heard from my friend that she told his gf that she doesn't think I like her. I don't know wtf that means because I've been gaming her and acting like a dj with cf, neg hits, not showing too much interest. We've hooked up and hung out enough to where I think I've shown that I like her. I haven't been saying **** like "You're so beautiful" and "I love hanging out with you". I don't know if she wants me to say that and if thats the only way she would understand that I like her? I really don't get why she would say "I don't think he likes me"? Can someone explain that to me.
Also, shes a senior in high school and Prom is in a month and a half. I told her that I want one of my buddies to go if I'm gonna go because I'm 20 shes 18 and I wouldn't have any friends there. So I'm trying to make that happen. But then last night shes like "I want to go to Prom with you but I need to know soon because otherwise I'm gonna find someone else". I just said "well I already told you that I want one of my friends to go". What the hell does that mean? Shouldn't I be insulted by that? How the hell should I handle this situation?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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K.Pez

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you shouldn't be insulted by that. prom is a big deal and she doesn't have a lot of time to wait if she does indeed need to get another date.

if you want a friend to come, put more effort into getting that ball rolling. find a friend, then ask this girl if she knows anyone who needs a date.
 

PerfectCircle

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women stick around til they prove you like them then they either marry or leave you.
 
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