"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Prom...How did I get myself into this mess

kegger

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Ok I must of just been high on caffeine today or feeling overly nice.

Here is the scoop.

I am out skating in our garage rink and my mother calls me. One of her so-called friends asked her if I have a GF (I do not) and if I would take her niece to the prom.

Her niece is a senior at a neighboring school about 20 miles away and her date ditched her and they have to know who it is going to be by tomorrow.

My first question is why in the heck do you wait until the day before she must turn the names in to ask me to go but anyways, I got over that. I got her senior pictures and she isn't real bad in the pictures. Not the best face but well blessed in other physical features...

Being the nice guy (bad thing, oh well, it will be the first time I have been with a girl in like 14 months) I give her a call and she sounds nice so I say what the heck, I will go.

Now is where I stopped thinking. When I say yes, I was not thinking about having to rent a tux, flowers and all the works. At least I know a mortition who is more than likely willing to shoffuer in his limo.

I just really would like some input on what you think because I can not back out now because I am not that cruel to anyone. Any suggestions would also be great.

Thanks
Kegger
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheNewGuy

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kegger said:
Ok I must of just been high on caffeine today or feeling overly nice.

Here is the scoop.

I am out skating in our garage rink and my mother calls me. One of her so-called friends asked her if I have a GF (I do not) and if I would take her niece to the prom.

Her niece is a senior at a neighboring school about 20 miles away and her date ditched her and they have to know who it is going to be by tomorrow.

My first question is why in the heck do you wait until the day before she must turn the names in to ask me to go but anyways, I got over that. I got her senior pictures and she isn't real bad in the pictures. Not the best face but well blessed in other physical features...

Being the nice guy (bad thing, oh well, it will be the first time I have been with a girl in like 14 months) I give her a call and she sounds nice so I say what the heck, I will go.

Now is where I stopped thinking. When I say yes, I was not thinking about having to rent a tux, flowers and all the works. At least I know a mortition who is more than likely willing to shoffuer in his limo.

I just really would like some input on what you think because I can not back out now because I am not that cruel to anyone. Any suggestions would also be great.

Thanks
Kegger
Sounds like you should rent a tux and buy some flowers.
 

Oxide

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Sounds like you should let her parents pay for your sh!t as well. Seriously, tell them that you are broke and don't have the money for all that jazz..but you WILL buy the tickets, or whatever else the fukk you kids need nowadays.

Go with her, if you got something for her, get with her. If not, make it pretty clear before she develops something for ya.. that way you can get other girls..

to the admin who messaged me about HS forum: this is about as far as I'm gonna go
 

Rata Blanca

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Take her on a bike.
 

shydude

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Umm, rent a tux etc. Dont try too hard, dont think too much, you are not getting married etc. Just do the basic stuff, to look good from outside and inside.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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