Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Prom Dilemma

adpreston1988

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So my Prom is May 20th (about 2 months away) and some people have begun asking girls to prom, but a lot haven't yet. None of my friends have really begun asking. My problem is that right now there are 2 girls I have in mind of asking to prom and I'm pretty sure both will say, "yes". However, I've been thinking about it and I almost like them the same amount. I have no idea which one to ask and one of the girl's friends are beginning to pressure me in to asking her.

Honestly though, I don't know if I see either one of these girls as more than a friend (I'm not really sure actually), and if there is another girl I REALLY like that doesn't have a date I might end up going with neither one of the girls above.

Any suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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immrtlwun

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Take them both. Seriously, if you're going as friends and the girls are sort of friends with each other, then you would probably have a pretty good time. And it shows some social proof if you want to try to pick up girls while you're there.
 
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