"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Prom Dilemma

adpreston1988

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So my Prom is May 20th (about 2 months away) and some people have begun asking girls to prom, but a lot haven't yet. None of my friends have really begun asking. My problem is that right now there are 2 girls I have in mind of asking to prom and I'm pretty sure both will say, "yes". However, I've been thinking about it and I almost like them the same amount. I have no idea which one to ask and one of the girl's friends are beginning to pressure me in to asking her.

Honestly though, I don't know if I see either one of these girls as more than a friend (I'm not really sure actually), and if there is another girl I REALLY like that doesn't have a date I might end up going with neither one of the girls above.

Any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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immrtlwun

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Take them both. Seriously, if you're going as friends and the girls are sort of friends with each other, then you would probably have a pretty good time. And it shows some social proof if you want to try to pick up girls while you're there.
 
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